I know the simple answer is to just delete, numbers etc , and don't take calls. But after 24mths, how do you finish and be strong enough to cut yourself off emotionally.
2006-10-19 05:22:46 · 4 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The way I'm doing it is to think about all those days when I was in so much pain because of him. I'm in pain now from the breakup but I know with enough time the physical pain will go away. If I stayed with him the pain would just continue to keep coming. He wasn't changing and the relationship wasn't getting any better. Id rather hurt some now rather then set myself up for more and more pain. Enough is enough.
2006-10-19 05:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, do I deserve this kind of treatment? Can I live happily this way?
The longer you let this go on, the harder it will be to leave. Cutting yourself off from him physically may be fairly easy, but it takes time to get over the emotional connection, but it does happen.
Bad treatment only gets worse. You will never be happy this way and living walking on eggshells all the time is no way to live. If you leave now, in time you can be happy again. If you stay, you are forever miserable.
2006-10-19 12:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just turn and walk away. You have to ask yourself why you would want to be with anyone who says things that are unforgivable....
Besides, all you're going to do is get more of the same.
2006-10-19 12:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take time apart and evaluate the situation, also see how he does with the time apart. that in itself will tell you if he is a keeper.
2006-10-19 12:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋