what can i do i might be pregnant?

Question

i might be pregnant if i am my mum will hate me i dont know what my bf will do and i have just started my college course help

Answer 1

You will make do with what happens. Your mom won't hate you. She may be disappointed but she won't hate you. Just talk to her and your bf.

Answer 2

Before you panic start with a pregnancy test. Do a couple of them. If the test comes back positive for being pregnant make an appointment with a gynecologist, or your family doctor. They will be able to tell you if you are truely pregnant. If you are, you can talk with your doctor about your different options. You can have the baby, and keep it, give the baby up for adoption, or have an abortion if it's legal where you live. It's really scary, but you'll be ok. Your mom will get over her anger. If your b/f sticks around that's great, but remember everyday that single stong women raise their kids. Weather the father was there to begin with, or the Father died later on. The source below should have some info regarding your options, and some good advice.

Answer 3

You asked this question three times now in less than two minutes, you really might be scared.
First find out if you are really pregnant. I don't know where you live and what options you have but if so than just go to the drug store or pharmacy and buy an pregnancy test.
If it comes positive first person you should tell is your boyfriend. If he is a man and stays behind you and support you, than you know you have someone to help you out raising this child. If he turns you down you have to tell your mother, because she is the only person who will understand.
She might get mad and disappointed but believe me she'll come around and help you.
You can still go to college and move on with your life, but it will be difficult.
If I were you I will get an abortion (watch from thumbs down from pro-life activist) No child deserves to be born in a world where he is not wanted, not loved and seen as a reason for failure. No child deserves to be born given for adaption or in foster care.
that is how I see it.

Answer 4

First off, don't worry unless you know for sure that you are pregnant. If you are, then you should go and talk with your student advisior, that's what they are there for. Then, you need to sit down with your mother and let her know. It might be hard, and it might end with tears, but it needs to be done.

Then you need to decide for yourself what YOU want to do, and once you decide, and are 100% positive that's the route you want to take, then tell your boyfriend. DO NOT let him convince you to do something you don't want to do. If he truly does love you, then he'll respect your wishes.

I can't say that you should have used protection, because I have a baby myself that resulted from unprotected sex. (My husband and I were planning to get married, but at the time that she was concieved we were still engaged) You can't go back and change time, but you can prevent this from happening again in the future. If you don't have insurance, there are low-cost or free options for birth control. With that being said, it's also a good idea to take a proactive stand and ask that a guy uses a condom when having sex.

Answer 5

You have many options. You could:

A. Deliver the child, work hard, and create a full and happy life for your little son or daughter (I had my son my sophomore year of college, it's very doable and incredibly rewarding) or,

B. Give the child up for adoption. Millions of anxious couples are waiting to adopt a little baby. Or,

C. Abort your child before it's born, denying it a chance to see the sky, have a childhood, grow old, live and love and experience this world.

It should be obvious that I don't think C is a viable option. I guarantee that if you get an abortion it will torment you for the rest of your life. I have never met a woman who was happy with her decision to abort her child.

It will be hard to be a mother in college, but you can do it. I promise you your mother will love you NO MATTER WHAT. She will fall in love with her grandchild and she will support you. You owe it to your little son or daughter to give him or her a chance. Children are a lot of work, but they are immensely rewarding. You have no idea how much you are capable of loving another person until you look into the eyes of your child.

Answer 6

Well your mum won't hate you I'm sure of that. She may be disappointed but she loves you and feels for you. I was single and presgnant and had twins. I was 7 mo. when I had them but they only lived a month. (they were too premature) I found out years later that my mother would have helped me look after them. Have that baby and love him/her and life will go on. Anything is possible. And remember; while you are pregnant be happy and you will have a happy baby.

Answer 7

Well, you got yourself in a pickle. But I tell you what, this is a great opportunity for you. You're grown up, atleast enough to decide on your own what you will do and whom you will do it with. It is time to make those decisions on your own, whatever they may be, no matter whom they affect. If your mom gets mad, so be it, bf don't like that is his problem. The thing is you have got to be your own woman now, you know why? Some one else is counting on you to be your own woman, to be strong for them, and to take care of them. Lots of ladies go to college that have children, its not easy, but adversity builds character. You can make it, and you are going to have a heck of a story to tell when you are through. So keep your head up, and we'll be pullin for you.

Answer 8

You have your options, the abortion hotline can actually rack up the cash for you to get it done, they have surgical, or medical abortions, or you could drink Pennyroyal and get rid of it that way, or you could give the thing up for adoption. If you are under 18 your mom might make you keep it, and that would just suck, especially since you just started school. Also, go to DHS and get some information about child care and medicaid. They may be able to help depending where you live. Your mom prolly would be in shock but most of them usually are. My dad hates kids, and didn't speak to me for about 3 weeks when I told him. Then he held him, and I chose to keep my family lineage going by keeping my last name. Dad's cool with Pete now. As for the man, he may not want anything to do with it. If so, adoption or abortion are your best bets.

Answer 9

My, you seem to have a lot of "worries" right now. First of all, you're an idiot if you are pregnant and didn't wish to become pregnant. Have you ever heard of birth control or self-control? Both are very effective, especially self-control...don't participate in sex. Anyway, go get a pregnancy test kit at the local Walgreen's and find out for sure. If you are pregnant, then you are going to have a baby....congratulations! Also, take the time to tell your parent(s) as soon as possible. They deserve to know early and to hear it from you directly.

Answer 10

Find out for sure before you panic. If you are pregnant, and can't see keeping the baby, plan on adoption. You will not have to quit school, and there are thousands of women out there who can't have children, but who desperately want them. I know; I'm one of them.