I am really shy and i really want to be out going and stuff and have more confidence but i always hang out with my friends and they are always the same person. and when im around guys i don't even talk wat should i do?
2006-10-19 05:11:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This transition will not be an easy one. Start listening to others in their conversation and join in as a listener, participate to know more about their conversation, then start asking relevant questions on the topic. This will make you a participant in the conversation and the team. You will be heard and you will be replied. Slowly but surely this habit will transform you to a outgoing person.
2006-10-19 05:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by Spheris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well during class ask a boy for help on your homework. Or if you hear a group of males over talking maybe nicely but in, like if they are talking "oh I forgot when the next pep rally is" you can peep in and say. I'm really shy too, but maybe start smiling more, and more people will feel better around you. I always see it as "you only live once, you're going to school with these people for a few more years so who cares" and just start talking, at first it's hard, but keep practicing. Everyday always talk to someone new, even if it's complimenting someone's hair or shoes!
2006-10-19 12:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by fuzzy_fruitcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behave as if you've been given a part in a play, and your "role" is to be the confident woman.
Walk into a new place with your held held high, smile on your face, and be friendly....after a while you'll be feeling more comfortable with the new you, and it won't be an act anymore.
2006-10-19 12:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i knew this girl she was real real shy but i asked her out.
well it was hard to get her to talk and stuff. any way years later
she told me over the phone that she just got up enough nerve
and had sex with this guy - she popped like a fire cracker and she became alive and very popular. made me sad to hear that she did not experience her first time with me.
2006-10-19 13:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something to talk about. Sports is always great.
"How about those Mets? That game was, well..........."
"What happened to the raiders? 0-5?"
2006-10-19 12:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is very hard to push yourself out of that circle, but if you don't you know exactly where you will be for the rest of your life huh?
2006-10-19 12:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend your someone else
2006-10-19 12:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋