What do I do, my bf in a row told me he had been sleeping with people behind my bk, then went to deny it after

Answer 1

You do what you feel, honestly dont listen to what your friends say becuase its always not the best solution for you. If you want to stay with him and try to work these things out than do that, its your decision and sometimes friends get in the way of that. But if you feel like you want to kick him to the curve than do so.

Answer 2

It's just so easy for people to say leave him... but that's not the way love works. Leaving him now might not be the best thing, i mean if you loved him you wouldn't be able to just turn your back on him cold turkey. To forgive is Divine... that doesn't mean forget about what he said, keep it in the back of your mind and move on. If he really is cheating on you, it will come out. It might take a little time, but everything that happens in the dark always comes to the light, eventually. I would just sit back and not say anything else about it. No questions, no smart comments, nothing... Pretend like it's all good again. If you start hounding him , or acting suspicious, he'll cover his tracks. But if you act like there's nothing wrong, he'll get messy. So just sit back and let him do all the work , he'll either dig himself out of the hole, or dig himself deeper. But don't sweat it.

Answer 3

Honestly I would say to leave him. He isn't worth your time if he was doing that to you. Even if he was just angry and said it, it's hurtful and mean. You don't need that extra stress. I would get out of the relationship as fast as possible. Not only is cheating a horrible thing to do, but if he was sleeping with someone else, that person may have had an STD and your boyfriend may have contracted an STD. Hope everything works out. Good luck!

Answer 4

Dump that guy
He doesn't sound like somebody
that seems worth keeping around
But before you do, in a very elaborate process
try to scare him into to telling you the truth
But don't be soft hearted just because him might be a little truthful
Because the guy's still full of B/S

Answer 5

(to those of us across the pond in the USA, "row" means a fight)

Ok, here's your answer: dump the chump. Anyone who would say something that hateful (true or not) during a fight deserves to be dumped. What a creep! What the heck would he say during a REAL argument? Jeeez!
D the C! D the C!

Answer 6

Whether he actually did cheat or not telling you he did is just as bad. He's either cheating or playing games to make you upset and jealous. Either way its no good for you. I would say you need to break up with this loser. If someone really cares for you they would never want you to think the slept with others.

Answer 7

Tell him that you'll see him around and cut contact with him. He either lied or cheated on you or both and none of that is good relationship conduct.

Answer 8

i think u should just go and break up with him, u should not be with a guy that sleep with other girls and then telling u about it and then say that he did not sleep with them. and i think that u should be with a guy that loves u and not sleep with other people.
and i think that u deserve better.

Answer 9

What does your gut feeling tell you. You either leave him or stay. Do you think he will do it again? If yes, then you have answered your own question.

Answer 10

would you sleep with someone if you knew they had aids, or any other sexually transmitted disease? i'm thinking you would not. you have a choice there. if your boyfriend is having sex with others, he is taking away your choice to be disease free. i would dump him, have myself tested, and be more careful in future relationships. aids is a killer, and not curable.