when ever im around guys im really shy and i don't know wat to say so im usually quite and my friends would talk to them and stuff and i would just be there. how do u become not shy when im around guys?
2006-10-19 05:08:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
confidence!
2006-10-19 05:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its funny because i have the same problem even if i have been knowing a friend or a boyfriend for years, i am still shy. But i learned you would stop being shy when you break out of it. Sometimes you just have to go with the groove.
2006-10-19 05:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Brittany G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all stems from ur perception of urself, and how much influence others' opinions are.
so, start with Yourself (u can change urself, can't change other people's thoughts!):
work on ur Appearance: work out, exercise. buy flattering clothes, try on different makeup, hairstyles. find what looks Good on you, and what u feel comfortable/confident in, also what is stylish
work on ur Mind: study more, read more, learn more! the more u KNOW the more u will be able to discuss w/ others
work on ur Relationships: w/ family , then friends, eventually friends of friends, and Strangers! remember, the better u feel about ur Looks and your Mind, the less things u have to be "shy" about. good luck!
try not to become cocky and think ur "all that".. but be Proud of urself... u should feel Beautiful, Happy, and Positive about life, and that will attract other people to you! :)
2006-10-19 05:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them like they were your brothers without the expectations of a possible relationship. If you think you're going to end up married from the start; well that will only make you nervous. And yes; be totally honest and be yourself.
2006-10-19 05:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by susie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the type of person you are, stay that way, beacause there are men who are also like that, and prefer the quiter type.Don't change yourself. However if you are usually more outgoing, then have confidence, just be yourself!
2006-10-19 05:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Magrietjie v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I don't know how to answer that question because I have the exact same problem!!! I just want to talk to them but it is hard!!! Good Luck!!
2006-10-19 05:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by Cortney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let a group of guys have there own way with you and im sure you will never be shy again,,,
but
you could just try improving your confidence you know,, think that you are gods gift to the wirld and stuff like that
2006-10-19 05:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
the main thing is confidence
try to be yourself
talk about things you noe
juz relax nothing bad would happen by juz talking
2006-10-19 05:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by x040493t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear one of those bras where your nipples are not covered and wear a top which will show that. Next, wear thong underwear and have the top part show above your pants in the back. Finally, whenever you see a boy look at you, lick your lips. You won't have to say anything - they will start the conversation every time.
2006-10-19 05:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by abbeyroad54321 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
try making a conversation about things you know about, relax and be yourself
2006-10-19 05:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋