We just moved to her hometown about 800 miles from anyone I know. Things have really been stressful lately because she is more focused on school and work right now. In the past 6 weeks she really hasn't paid that much attention to me and its been really hard on me, I have been seeing a counselor for depression but she still isn't very cognitive of my feelings, any suggestions?
2006-10-19 05:07:26 · 3 answers · asked by thatoneguy00 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Every day I come home and I clean and I give her back massages and foot massages and god I just love her so much. I put her happiness above all, but the thing is that it makes her feel great and happy but she never returns the favor, she never thinks about how great I would feel if she tried to make me happy.
2006-10-19 05:33:52 · update #1
Um, the way you phrased your question is not too cool, bra--
the whole "make her show me she loves me", that totally is NOT cognitive of her feelings on your end. But I know where youre coming from.
Now that I chilled ya, this is what Munya would do: Sit down with her. DONT make her sit down if she's running around busy, just make it when you both are relaxed and express your doubts in a non-attacking manner. Your counselor should be able to script something for you and even role-play with you.
Good luck, kiddo and kudos to you for seeking help with your depression, it sucks but it can get better.
2006-10-19 05:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah! how about you quit being so damn selfish and have a little patience while she is studying and working. GROW UP!
2006-10-19 12:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her how you feel , that would be a good start .
2006-10-19 12:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋