About three years age I had a great healthy sex drive, but then it suddenly quit. I really have no urge to do it anymore. It really sucks because my fiance and I used to fight about why wouldn't we do it like we used to. I would tell him I just don't feel like it and he thought I was lying. Right now he is away at boot camp for marines and I want to try to get this fixed. I hate it, because all of my friends don't have this problem. Does anyone know what might be causing this. Is there a pill that maybe you can take? Please help me out, because I absolutly hate this rut. It has been way to long and I don't think it will just go away.
2006-10-19 04:58:33 · 11 answers · asked by NoName 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
(ago not age sorry)
2006-10-19 04:59:37 · update #1
We have done all the foreplay there is. Everything. I think it is something medical and I am really afraid to go. I know thats stupid.
2006-10-19 05:07:20 · update #2
I just wanted to see maybe what everyone might think it is. I don't want to go if there could be a over the counter treatment that someone has tried.
2006-10-19 05:08:14 · update #3
I also take no medicines. Nothing different has changed. It was like it just stopped.
2006-10-19 05:09:27 · update #4
Low libido (low sexual desire), is a very common problem for many women after childbirth or for those on birth control. It can also happen to young women or women of all ages. The cause is usually a hormonal imbalance.
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2006-10-19 08:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by lignebur72 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is going to sound crazy....but I looked into this, and this is what I found...
They say to cure this, you need to have sex/masturbate as much as possible becuase the more you do it the more you want it... I know its hard since you just don't want to, but you have to just make yourself do it.
You and your fiance...when he gets back...actually need to make a schedule of when you are are going to have sex, and stick to it. You basically need to retrain your brain into wanting it again. I am going through this myself...and it is working. Also, diet and exercise will help a lot too. Just make sure you are eating right and get to the gym a few times a week. Playing little games will help too!! I am 25 and have been married for 2 mos...this is a problem for us!!
Email me if you want to talk.....
2006-10-19 05:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My spouse's dropped off after each and every youngster, for type of 12-18 months, yet picked up progressively and he or she is now plenty greater lively (little ones 9 and eight) than in the previous. She started workout (working) 3 hundred and sixty 5 days after our 2d, that would have helped. She's greater healthy than in the previous (even with the incontrovertible fact that no longer aggressive/athletic). The lull after each and every youngster is infamous and blamed for a good style of marital issues (alongside with sleepless nights, no time on my own, etc.). purely ensure you do no longer forget to do issues for yourselves, spend time, pass out, smash one yet another, presents, etc. conserving up with those romantic issues will make advantageous that as quickly as your physique is waiting, you nonetheless love one yet another and prefer to get it on. you will could do your terrific to muster some enthusiasm interior the intervening time.
2016-10-02 11:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be stress, could be depression, or it could just be routine. If you've been with your man for a while, that could happen. Maybe try different things to make it more exciting. Like games, porn, role playing...etc. If not, I believe there is a pill that can boost your libido, just ask your GYN. Good luck.
2006-10-19 05:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by BellaRia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm first get your hormones checked. If that doesent work onder why. Maybe your sex dosent include enofe foreplay. And theyre are many thigns for you to take btw go talk to your doctor im sure she/he will be very willing to talk to you about it :)
2006-10-19 05:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmi H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you let this go on for so long?
There are so many reasons why this happens. You have to seek professional help to find out exactly why. It's not going to get "fixed" overnight. It takes time and patience.
2006-10-19 05:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by eehco 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your on the pill, you may need a different pill. My sister had this problem, and they switched her to a pill with more testosterone. She returned to normal libido after that!
2006-10-19 05:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Traditional Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be the hormones. Talk with a sex therapist maybe they can help.
2006-10-19 05:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by stemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on any medications? A lot of prescriptions will interfere with your sex drive. Especially anti-depressants....but depression alone will interfere with it too.
2006-10-19 05:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by jlabw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise seeing a good Classical Homeopath. He/she will address the "how & why" of your problem.
2006-10-19 05:03:06 · answer #10 · answered by Rik 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋