I can't stop thinking about it, especially when I see a lot of men. I think about it all the time. Even when I'm doing something serious like a meeting at work. All I can do is nod my head and act like I'm listening-- but the entire time I am wondering what the man I'm talking to is like in bed. Is there something wrong with me? Or is it normal to think like this?
2006-10-19 04:38:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Logic, perhaps you shoud learn to spell slut first before you call someone that.
2006-10-19 04:45:14 · update #1
Thinking and acting are TWO DIFFERENT things. I never said I acted on those thoughts... I said I HAVE those thoughts.
2006-10-19 04:54:11 · update #2
It's perfectly normal, and anybody who tries to tell you otherwise has obviously had his or her mind completely twisted and seriously WARPED by their typical American PURITANICAL upbringing. THEY will NEVER be able to have a normal, full, and satifying sex life, but on the other hand, I'm sure YOU will!
Go for the gusto and carpe diem; life is short...enjoy it!
2006-10-19 04:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand why people (men!) think women don't have a sex drive... we certainly do, and we get just as horny as they do, especially at certain times of the month or when we've "abstained" for a while!
I wouldn't say that I look at every guy I talk to and think about having sex with him, but I'm pretty hooked on a dude right now, and lately all I've been thinking about is how I can get HIM into bed, and how SOON! ;)
I doubt that you're abnormal, weird, or have something wrong with you, unless you start to act on these thoughts you have. That could create problems, especially at work. Don't worry about it so much!
Good luck!
2006-10-19 04:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by lachicadecafe 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not as much as you say you're thinking about it. People at work usually wonder what it would be like with their coworkers in a fleeting moment or moments but are not normally preoccupied with the thought.
2006-10-19 07:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal to think about it. Not normal to obsess, inappropriately. Your problem is more an INABILITY TO FOCUS on your current activity. Discuss THAT with a professional. In addition; Thinking and fantasizing are meant to propel one to action. When appropriate, act on your wants and needs. Attraction, Communication,and Connection. Best to you.
2006-10-19 04:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with having a high sex drive or a healthy imagination. Only if you became obbessed with sex to the point where it was causing a problem for you would I say otherwise.
2006-10-19 04:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Not being a woman, I can't say whether or not that's normal for a woman, but suffice it to say, I wish more women were like you.
2006-10-19 05:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by thalog482 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself am very similar. I seem to compare everything to sex in some way or another.
As I get older I'm noticing that there are alot more women like myself.....(ourselves)
so I have to say, yes,it's normal or at least it is becoming that way : )
2006-10-19 04:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by moxie 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Well, If you aren't normal then neither am I b/c I have sex on the brain 24/7.
2006-10-19 04:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by countryladyfromNC 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is ok, but if like what you have mentioned, you think about it when you are doing serious work, then it is a unwise thing already, as it affect your work and your life. Just remember, thinking is ok, but doing it is another thing. Hope you understand what i'm trying to convey to you.
2006-10-19 04:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sounds normal, have you gotten any lately?? Maybe if you got laid you would be able to think of other things. Are you married or do you have a boyfriend?? They need to pay a little more attention to your needs. If you don't you need to get a F**K Buddy.
2006-10-19 04:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by The Answer Man 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋