i am a male and have had a girlfriend for about 1 and a half years but recently a 6 foot 3 guy on the foorball team with a six pack and blue eyes asked me out, is it wroong to experiment, i mean who better to try it that with him?? I mean you will never know until you try.
2006-10-19 04:36:01 · 13 answers · asked by michaelomaq 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Go for it if you want; it's up to you. BUT you'd better have a long talk with yourself to deal with the discovery of your latent homosexuality. Once you've done that, then is the time to tell your girlfriend.
2006-10-20 03:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, 30 years ago, the words "you never know until you try" would never be spoken/written in the same sentence as "I am male and a football player asked me out".
This goes to show how the media in today's society has brainwashed and desensitized our youth into thinking homosexuality is something to be taken lightly. I said "you never know until you try" before but I was talking about a sandwich.
Please for the love of God, don't be tricked into thinking that just because you see guys with guys all over the television set that it is something you should "try" to see if you like it. Without t.v.s these ideas would have never been put into your head in the first place.
If you love your girlfriend, (which I assume you must if you spent 1 1/2 years with her) don't do this. Imagine how she will feel that you left her for another guy...
Im a woman and if my bf told me he wanted to experiment with a guy I would
1) wonder whats so wrong with me that I turned my bf gay,
2) be super pissed off that I wasted so much time on someone who doesnt even know what sexuality they are,
Remember once you do something like that you can never take it back. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life knowing that you let another man put his pee pee inside your bum bum?
The thought would give me nightmares for life. Thats why my my bum bum is exit only.
On the other hand, if you find yourself more attracted to this man than you have ever EVER been for a woman, then you should be true to yourself, but make sure its something you are sure about first ok.
2006-10-19 11:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by glowworm16f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead. Chances are you'll not enjoy it much, but it might be a turning point in your life. Jennie offers you three pieces of advice.
First, if you decide half-way through the encounter that it's not for you, don't start a fight.
Second, make sure your girlfriend does not find out.
Third, don't get pregnant.
If you decide not to continue your relationship with this adonis, please tell me his email.
2006-10-19 11:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Cheating is cheating. There is no gray area.
2. There is no such thing as an experiment. Either you swing that way or you don't. And you, friend, swing that way.
3. You obviously find this guy sexually attractive and you are seeking approval from others to remove the responsibility from yourself. Don't kid us or yourself.
2006-10-19 11:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with experimenting but first you must let the person you are involved with know that you need time off to experiment.
You can't continue dating her and experiment too; that is taking her freedom of choice away to please you.
Experiment, if she's willing to wait on you or not will be her decision too.
2006-10-19 11:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! If you were single, fine!!! But come on now, if it was another woman, it would be cheating! So why would it be different here?
If you do go ahead, make sure you use lots of lube!
2006-10-19 11:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm its cheating and if you want to do that, dont know why you would, the you need to tell you gf. You know that would mean you are gay. Whether its experiment or not, it gay and you would be gay. which is gross. good luck though, tell your gf, she might wanna a little 3 action. whatever you do , tell her bout it.
2006-10-19 11:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jess Allene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating if you do something behind your SO's back.
Experiment while you're single, not in a relationship. Unless you talk to your girl and she's okay with it (not likely).
2006-10-19 11:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, cheating is cheating no matter if it is with the same sex. If you want to try this you need to let your girl friend know.
2006-10-19 11:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating... no way else to look at it. You have some deep thinking to do. Be honest with her no matter what.
2006-10-19 11:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by P!ss Ant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋