I like this guy and he already knows it. We we're best friends before so it's not a big deal for him. Before, I never thought of being inlove with him, and I was actually one of the persons who helped him when he was courting this other girl that he still loves. He considers me as his bestfriend and sister, and I show him the same way, and I'm pretending that I'm starting to forget that I have feelings for him. So what can I do? At my young age, what could be the best things to do? Thank You!
2006-10-19 04:13:29 · 4 answers · asked by Chippy_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
let me tell you from experience never hide your feelings for someone,cause when you finally do it'll b 2 late,all u have 2 do is tell him you love him and if he love you enough he'll be with you or if he just love you as a fruend then move on,remember u can't force some1 2 love u. so just tell him how u feel and find out how he feels
2006-10-19 04:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are starting to already forget about it, then just forget about it. I've been in your situation and sometimes you need to just go ahead and deal with those feelings, but other times, if you can let them go away, then let them go and find someone who you feel intimate and romantic with as well as friendy with... not just a friend who all of a sudden looks attractive. The romance often times isn't there and it could ruin your friendship when it is over.
That is my advice.
2006-10-19 12:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn your attention away from him. Miss a few of his calls. Be too "busy" to call him back. Make him wonder what it is that is suddenly more important than him. He will miss you and need your attention and maybe take you more seriously as a girlfriend. If he doesn't better to know sooner than later. Don't be mean just be very busy. You never know what you got till it's gone.
2006-10-19 11:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you stop hiding ur feelings
don't be scared of love go with ur feelings
go slow and not to far as i am sure you know.
nothing wrong with dating it's all part of growing up my best advice is go slow take ur time don't do anything you don't feel ready for
i wish you the best ..................
2006-10-19 15:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by terry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋