2006-10-19 04:10:52 · 23 answers · asked by ralph d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Call off the wedding.
2006-10-19 04:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too hard for strangers to answer...
Do you mean she slept with him on the eve of your wedding or that was when she told you?
How long ago was it?? Like 7 years ago when you were first dating, or a couple weeks??
I would def. be alarmed, but the good part is, shes telling you this before you slide the ring on her finger. Maybe shes making that attempt to tell you everything so you both can have a honest and happy marriage. Though, there are going to be a lot of problems to tend to. I'm not saying to go through with it, but don't throw it away. People do change, relationships change, and she might be ready to be with you.
2006-10-19 04:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kbailey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im guessing you are already married so if it was me i would want to know from her what feelings she has for him and since she slept with him there must be something....but it maybe minute as into comparison of what she feels for you.Dont throw it all away but dont just let it go because straight away there is going to be a trust issue...how do you feel about counselling? I think it is a very personal decision to make as you are the one that has to live with that decision....good luck
2006-10-19 04:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not call her a fiance but another term of phrase and end the relationship right there and then advertise it in the newspaper just for all the family and fiend of his to see.
2006-10-19 04:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u have 2 ask such a ???. Dump her ***, move on. It will hurt 4 a while....time heals all wounds. There is some1 better out there 4 u. U will eventually laugh it off and b a better person cause of it believe me.
2006-10-19 04:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by bammbamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her at the alter when the preacher asks if anyone objects Just walk out.
2006-10-19 04:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by tractor girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she was saying goodbye; haven't you ever done that? She was also being thoughtful and warming up the equipment for somebody she plans on spending her life with. Grow up, mature and go on with life. None of us can walk on water.
2006-10-19 04:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a way to tell you she doesnt want to get married,, if she did she would have kept it secret at least, if she didn't and is telling you av out it its obviously another way to call it off. some people cannot speak up their minds and they do things instead,, like women who get pregnant so that they can marry certain fella, just because they cannot ask him to Marry them
2006-10-19 04:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by carla s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that I would end the marriage.
It's not even like she was looking for the last experiance - she already had it.
No morality or justification (if any) for this.
2006-10-19 04:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you already get married? If not, DON'T! Don't get involved with someone that you can't fully trust. You WILL regret it in the long run! Believe me I know!
2006-10-19 04:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by panda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋