I am 29 years old and fairly good looking/ divorced and have a 3 year old. The last girl i was with was a hot little 20 year old that came over and we had a hot time and she told me how much fun she had and wanted to do it again but them a few days later she just dissappeared of the face of the earth.
2006-10-19 04:00:07 · 8 answers · asked by SuperSoldierGIJOE 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Dating "hot little 20 year old" girls suggests you have a personality that most women would find off-putting.
2006-10-19 04:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun it might of been for a few reasons,......1) She is young an might look at you as a shuga daddy, 2) She might feel like she's not ready for any kids an hence doesn't want a man with kids( kid), 3) maybe the physical actions might have been too,too much for her an you scared her off( some men an women have this power an must learn how to control it an who to give " IT " too!!!! lol 4) your almost 30 hunny an a 20 yr.old is not the move for you at this point in your life for the simple fact you have a child that is at an impressionable age. And 5) there is a 9 yr. difference what do you really have in common? besides the physical, when it really comes down to it ?
Reasurch says the less of an age difference the better the relationship, an there should only be no more then 4-to-5 years difference; anything more then that it's going to seem like a parent child sort of thing.
I hope you find her IF she is really someone you are feeling an wanna kick it with for a few months but remember" females see the long term not the short" meaning after 6 months to a year she may want to get married an if that's not in your agenda then use it for what it's worth.....S-E-X nothing more nothing less.
Question to you......." Can you see her in the lives of you an your child for a year or more? " just curious.
I wish you all the best of luck,
K.
2006-10-19 11:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by dejha9772000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because your 29 years old, are somewhat vain, and still call a girlfriend a "hot 20 year old". You sound like an immature teenager who isn't looking for a steady girlfriend. You are looking for hot booty calls, and trust me, that will never be steady.
Grow up, your a parent! Start acting like one. No girl worth having is going to stick with you if thats what your like.
2006-10-19 12:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by Coco 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about your mentality: a hot little 20 year old that came over and we had a hot time. Sounds like you made up your mind to be a man whore! GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-19 11:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like that hot 20-year-old was just a player. A lof of girls will assume that if you're good looking that you are probably one too. That's what kept happening to my ex-wife's son who was very good looking - -all the chicks assumed he was out to notch his belt. I guess you need to give a short explanation to a new girl that you are not a player and then give her reasons to believe you. Good luck.
2006-10-19 11:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hot little girl was getting back at her boyfriend, You was just a tool
2006-10-19 11:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Paul S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a little wiener?
2006-10-19 11:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by now_by1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not all you think
2006-10-19 11:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by peckerwud2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋