i have never been able to orgasm, unless I was alone. Is there anything, besides relaxing, that I can do to help my boyfriend get the job done?
2006-10-19 02:21:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Many women either are unable to orgasm during vaginal intercourse, or are only rarely able to. First of all, don't worry about it- it still feels good, right? Then, what you have to do is get your boyfriend to increase the foreplay. Have him masturbate you, stimulating the clitoris. If you can find a position where you are leaned forward during sex, that will also stimulate the clitoris and help you orgasm. Finally, there is the g-spot. This is tricky, because it takes a long time and can make you feel like you have to pee, but it is worth it. Find it for yourself first. Crook your finger, insert it, and find a little shelf thign in there. Then try to get your boyfriend's penis to push on that while you are having sex. It might be easier to control the angle of penetration if you are on top. If you start feeling like you have to pee, you are close to orgasm. It's the best.
2006-10-19 02:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Beneficentia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women cannot have an orgasm by intercourse alone.
The reason you can during masturbation is because there is direct stimulation to you clitoris. I would recommend some experimenting with you and your boyfriend. Oral sex can be very gratifying for females and also manual stimulation (using your hands) during intercourse. Don't be afraid to touch yourself during sex or to have him do it as well. If he can see what turns you one while he watches he may get a better idea of what he can do to bring you there himself. Most men (real men) really get off on bringing a woman to orgasm. so don't be afraid to direct him in the way you want him to do it. Practice makes perfect!
2006-10-19 02:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relaxing is the key, have plenty of forplay.have your bf rub your clitoris with his penis until you are fully aroused, at this stage have him to insert his member,and you take over with the stimulation until orgasm occures. it works
2006-10-19 02:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by DASH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another boyfriend,somebody NOT SIXTEEN that has actually stimulated a "clitoris" before either with fingertips or tongue.Sounds like "loverboy" is the usually "16", selfish and out for himself....
2015-08-02 14:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by shawn6270 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can also try a different position. Maybe you could be the one ontop instead of him this way you can direct it where you want it to be. It worked for me just try it.
Good luck
2006-10-19 03:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by babs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When having sex, have your boyfriend (or you can do it yourself) stimulate your clit. That really helps. Have fun!
2006-10-19 02:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some pornos.....watch together!
2006-10-19 02:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by crownvic64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋