ok well i had 2 best friends who r girl & 2 guys.
well one guy & gurl date & the other 1 i used 2 like.
the best friend i hadnt mentioned name is kay. She is my best friend ever & we spent all weekend 2gether!!
however yesterday at school i was feeling sick & she kept messing with me & i had just told sum1 that & wen kay kept messing with me & i turned away from her she kept asking wut was wrong & her stupid boyfriend who was sitting there said "she told sum1 she was feeling sick but i doubt that!" then i said something then kay whispered sumthing 2 him & he agreed & she was like sorry kim but its true! lol. i wasnt very happy and plus wen im sick i get upset easily so i got up & went 2 sit next 2 my other best friend & she said sorry eddie is sitting there but its ok cuz eddie is my best guy friend so i sat next 2 him then she called me alot later than usual but ofcourse i was eating & i told her i could talk so she said U HAVE NO REASON 2 B MAD @ ME! & hung up. now she says
2006-10-19 02:18:24 · 10 answers · asked by kim w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she hates me & says she doesnt care any more i will post the message she sent me
2006-10-19 02:18:57 · update #1
i neva talk about u!
the only thing i said about mollie was that she hardltalks to me and that is wrong that i am numba 4 on her friends b/c she has been my BFF since 6th grade and thatz not about to change!!!!
and the only thing i said aboutm erikka was that she was weird but yeah i judged her too soon.
i got to know her and she was really cool!!
u can assume that i talk about u but I DON'T!
u talk about people too like CEDRIC!! and DREW!!
well thatz it i don't care if u r mad at b/c i just don't care anymore!!
so WHATEVER!!!
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2006-10-19 02:21:16 · update #2
Body: u wana kno y i was mad? well 1 i wasnt feeling well so i dont have alot of patients. plus drew said i was just saying that & that annoyed me then u kept messing around with me, i kno u were just playing but i didnt feel well & then u say something 2 drew about me & it just annoys me cuz then ppl wont leave me alone.
ok well wen u said sumthng 2 drew, that means ur prob not afraid 2 talk about me 2 other people. u always say u dont like people but then go & hang wit them like ur best friends. like mollie & erikka. how do i kno u dont talk about me bhind my back like u do 2 them??
ok well thats all & i did kinda get mad the way u called me & said that on the fone but w.e.
bye
2006-10-19 02:21:29 · update #3
Being in high school you have so much pressure on you to be a certain way and to talk to certain people and you have to try to look a certain way so that you could be considered popular. Life is so hard already without the added stress of being a teenager. I feel what you are going through but give it time and if she really is your best friend things have a way or working out. What the 2 of you are arguing about is petty anyway. It's just a bunch of he say she say and if you are the mature person that you seem to be then you should go to her and apologize to her and explain to her not thru email but word of mouth there is such a big difference. Even if you weren't wrong, apologize because it shows your maturity and the fact that you are willing to be the bigger person. Friends are forever but guys come and go just remember that and let her know that. I hope it all works out for the 2 of you.
2006-10-19 03:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i had 2 best friends who r girl & 2 guys.
well one guy & gurl date & the other 1 i used 2 like.
the best friend i hadnt mentioned name is kay. She is my best friend ever & we spent all weekend 2gether!!
however yesterday at school i was feeling sick & she kept messing with me & i had just told sum1 that & wen kay kept messing with me & i turned away from her she kept asking wut was wrong & her stupid boyfriend who was sitting there said "she told sum1 she was feeling sick but i doubt that!" then i said something then kay whispered sumthing 2 him & he agreed & she was like sorry kim but its true! lol. i wasnt very happy and plus wen im sick i get upset easily so i got up & went 2 sit next 2 my other best friend & she said sorry eddie is sitting there but its ok cuz eddie is my best guy friend so i sat next 2 him then she called me alot later than usual but ofcourse i was eating & i told her i could talk so she said U HAVE NO REASON 2 B MAD @ ME! & hung up. now she says
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she hates me & says she doesnt care any more i will post the message she sent me
32 minutes ago
i neva talk about u!
the only thing i said about mollie was that she hardltalks to me and that is wrong that i am numba 4 on her friends b/c she has been my BFF since 6th grade and thatz not about to change!!!!
and the only thing i said aboutm erikka was that she was weird but yeah i judged her too soon.
i got to know her and she was really cool!!
u can assume that i talk about u but I DON'T!
u talk about people too like CEDRIC!! and DREW!!
well thatz it i don't care if u r mad at b/c i just don't care anymore!!
so WHATEVER!!!
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i had recently sent:
32 minutes ago
Body: u wana kno y i was mad? well 1 i wasnt feeling well so i dont have alot of patients. plus drew said i was just saying that & that annoyed me then u kept messing around with me, i kno u were just playing but i didnt feel well & then u say something 2 drew about me & it just annoys me cuz then ppl wont leave me alone.
ok well wen u said sumthng 2 drew, that means ur prob not afraid 2 talk about me 2 other people. u always say u dont like people but then go & hang wit them like ur best friends. like mollie & erikka. how do i kno u dont talk about me bhind my back like u do 2 them??
ok well thats all & i did kinda get mad the way u called me & said that on the fone but w.e.
bye
ANSWER: SHE IS NOT UR FRIEND .
BYE
2006-10-19 02:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, Don't worry about it. If They don't won't to be there for you. And a boyfriend comes between the 2 of you. I will never put my boyfriend (even tho we have been together for a year) My best friend Taylor and I have been thou to much to let some guy between us. And I really think that if they were your true friends they would not be mad at you for getting sick or whatever. I hope things work out.
Good Luck
----Zanetta
2006-10-19 02:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-02 11:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a very confused life. You shouldn't be talking about anyone, unless you go to them and say it. If she were your best friend, she wouldn't hate you, so find someone new and keep the gossiping down.
2006-10-19 02:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shame man! i think you explained it well to her. this isn't a big fight and don't make it into one ok? yes you may not know if she speaks behind your back but by being her best friend and her yours, you shouldn't talk behind peoples' backs! i know you weren't feeling on top of the world but you should of just said to her that you weren't feeling well and she must please stop. then again she's your best friend and should of realized that you weren't feeling well and then clicked that it would upset you! girl just be strong and know that if the friendship is worth it, it will last
well best of luck!
2006-10-19 02:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax, give it time...surely if your friendship is real, things will fall into place eventually.
2006-10-19 02:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm so glad I'm a grown-up! You need new friends BADLY!
2006-10-19 02:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow highschool life is so hard!
2006-10-19 02:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you wouldnt consider her a bestfriend if she hates you...
2006-10-19 02:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋