recently I have had a sterilization and now cannot control my ejaculations, I also having pre-ejaculations I used to be able to go quite a long time but now I cannot can a doctor help me with this or something I can fix on my on it is really affecting my marriage. Has any body out there experienced this and what can I do I am 31 years old and never really had this problem
2006-10-19 01:48:54 · 15 answers · asked by mustang64093gt 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why are you on here asking...go see your dr
2006-10-19 01:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by little_outlaw_angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First find out if this is a side effect of the sterilization and if so how long will this last.
I learned in psychology that one of the treatments is the stop method. What you do is at that point when you feel it is going to happen you or your wife sqeeze it to make it stop and then start again. Overtime you will learn how to stop it on your own.
A sex thearpist would be your best bet. You want someone who is an expert with this. I don't know how long it will take for you to learn to control it. A thearpist I am sure can give you an idea and other methods to use.
Hope things get better for you and thank you for putting your questoin up in a respectful manner and correct terms.
2006-10-19 01:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see your doctor and don't be shy about this. Just talk to him and only he would know. Why do you sterilize at 31 years. Pretty young.
2006-10-19 01:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your doctor darlin.
Though if I was your wife I would like the idea that I got my man so turned on that he couldn't even get his pants off in time.
Geez if this small thing that can be fixed is affecting your marriage...... sounds like their is more to it. specially if you got sterilized for her, and this is a result of that.
2006-10-19 01:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by inchantedfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 19:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by criselda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a marriage counselor and a sex therapist.
I can relate to what's going on with you. There is treatment. Talk this over with your wife, and see the counselor first.
2006-10-19 01:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to your doctor and discuss this with him / her immediately. Normally, a doctor should discuss all the possible side-effects with you before any procedure.
2006-10-19 01:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a vasectomy, and it caused no effect on my sexual functioning at all. What you are describing sounds quite abnormal. Yes, you should definitely talk to your doctor about it.
2006-10-19 01:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back and see the doc who did the surgery. He'll be able to advise you better than anyone here.
2006-10-19 02:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better consult with your doctor, and I don't believe that you can do anything about this on your own.
2006-10-19 01:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you can't go see the doctor? You need to see him.
2006-10-19 02:01:05 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋