i talk to this lad online and ive been talking to him since march(i think) and we used 2 always talk alot but since i started university hes been kinda distance with me and we hardly talk and also he seems diferent to what he was like before. i think he may have got annoyed with me because i said i couldnt meet him and that i didnt answer his calls(my fone was on silent!!) but hes coming to birmingham this saturday and i was going to tell him that i could meet him but now im not sure because he seems so diferent and im not sure if i like that.
i used to like him more than a friend and he said he kinda did too but i didnt really believe him but now im just so confused grrrrr!! does anyone know what might be going on with him at first i thought that he really wanted to meet me and then he couldnt be bothered to talk to me just because i didnt answer his calls either. but now when he talks to me its always around the same topic.
i dnt want to lose him as a friend cus hes really nice!!
2006-10-19 01:33:16 · 18 answers · asked by ♥abi♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
jus tell him indirectly tat u will b free wen he comes to ur place. if he does not react then leave it at that. i guess he has gotten himself into some one else and not too interested in continuing this relationship.
2006-10-19 01:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Meeting people on line is always dodgy sweetie. Just be careful. I met this Scottish guy and straight away we clicked. We were just friends and spoke on phone too for 4 months. He was really funny and didn't talk bout sexual stuff like all the others did. We even arranged for him to come over and stay, until one day I was on line and he IM'd me. He was being really strange and suddenly said something bout him and his wife. He never spoke of any wife in the four months we spoke so obviously I was a bit shocked! Turns out it WAS his wife talking to me that day n told me to stay away. I explained I had no idea n she was cool but since then I'm extra careful not 2 get involved in chat rooms.
Also If you've never met this guy and your off to uni he may feel you won't have time to talk to him nemore. First impressions are always different to when you've got to know them. All their little bad points come out cuz you've never seen them before, but try to see past it and if you go and meet him don't go alone, have a friend on call somewhere n if things go bad call them 2 bail u out, if things go well ,bonus. Good luck stay safe xxxxx
2006-10-19 01:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by crazychicklisieloo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be careful meeting anyone like that. There are a lot of sick people out in the world. With him annoyed because of simple things what would happen if you met him and he wanted more than you willing to give. Who know what NO would do to him. Be safe and always think twice, that second thought could save your life.
2006-10-19 01:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by Fangs_4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with meeting up. That is the only way you are going to find out if he is really for you. Also you need to make sure he has not got other women online that he is getting to know.
2006-10-19 01:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by Label Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should meet him and talk face to face - its very hard on email/msn/text to truly understand what someone is like or what mood they are in - you get no intonation, no body language, tone of voice etc - even on the phone it's limited and things can easily be misconstrue.
I think you should meet him and see how it goes. If he is 'off' with you or still seems distant when you meet, then perhaps try talking to him about it. At least face to face you'll be able to see how he really feels and what the problem is.
Good luck
2006-10-19 01:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by Pington 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think maybe he was feeling the same was as you confused.
Maybe if you explain everything that happened and say that you are available this weekend to meet him.
Meet in a public place have a drink and see if you get on away from a computer.
Other wise you'll never know and will be left to regret it :)
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2016-12-05 00:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't know what you want so he is distancing himself because of that! Tell him u wana meet him n im sure everything will be fine once your face to face.
Good luck & b safe! X
2006-10-19 01:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Jodi ♥ Kaydi's Mummy ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men huff when they do not get what thay want. tell him you have some free time on saturday. let him ask you if you want to meat . and take a friend just to make sure. if not they are lots of men at university that may not be huffy. have a look
2006-10-19 01:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one
But what I would say, is if he is having silly little strops now over silly things then do you need the hassle?!?!?
If he value's your friendship he would wait til your ready and not pressurise you into anything...........
You do things when you are ready love, not cause he is ready....
If he doesn't talk to you anymore than you was not as important to him as you think you are, with solves your situation...........
Sorry to be so blunt
Be sure of yourself xxx
2006-10-19 01:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him what his problem is, nicely of course. If you want to meet him, meet him, but make sure you are safe, ie have your friends with you, or nearby. Thing is, if he has a huffy over missed calls do you really want to be friends with him????
2006-10-19 01:37:16 · answer #11 · answered by Chickette 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋