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OK she is really mean and always hurts my feelings. She has no friends, accept one that is like forst to like her. One of my best friends doesn't like her and neither do I but the girl with no friends thinks that me and my BF are her BFF's but neither of us like her. Now she pulls three girls around includeing my best friend. I don't want to be her friend and neither does my friend but I don't know how to break it to her... I need ansers quick before school starts. Give me ansers.PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-19 01:28:48 · 14 answers · asked by Emma B 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

14 answers

You have three options~~~~~~~
#1 Tell her exactly how you feel and tell her to bug off.
#2 Tell her that you would like to be friends but she is mean and is continually hurting your feelings, so if she can't change her ways you will discontinue your friendship with her. Then give her another chance. If she continues with her behavior issues, drop her as a friend. If she changes for the better, you may have a great friend.
#3 Put up with her bad behavior and insults and be miserable.

2006-10-19 01:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If she is a true friend talk to her.Thats what friends are about being there in the good an the bad and being honest with them.Tell her how you are feeling and what you feel she is doing wrong she can either choose to listen or not but at least you are giving her a chance.She maybe having a hard time in life right now and by helping her out rather than kicking her out is what she needs. Good luck

2006-10-19 08:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0 0

um stop including her. Join some activity or job or volunteer with your best friend, so that way your busy with otherstuff.

Or even better, talk to her like an adult. If someone didn't like you and they were wanting to give you the brush off or were pretending to be your fiends, you would want to know why.... wouldn't you. Be honest with her, maybe she will stop being so cold twards every one and realize that her attitude is stinking.

HONESTY IS THE ONLY WAY TO BE YOURSELF

2006-10-19 08:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by inchantedfriend 1 · 0 0

God, just tell her straight. It might be tough at first, but it's better in the long run than enduring it. Oh, and get the other friend of yours to tell her at the same time. That might add more weight to it. Good luck!

2006-10-19 08:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 3 · 1 0

Well just tell her im sorry but well i feeel as though your splitting me and ..........ur best friend im sorry but id rather not be put in this situation so look im sorry i really am i gotta go bye easy as just take a deep breath

2006-10-19 08:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by laura j 2 · 0 0

Just tell her to her face that you don't want to hang out with her any more. Don't be dodgy about it either sometimes that can make a situation go from bad to worse.

2006-10-19 08:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by Viper Strike Force 1 · 0 0

try ignoring her as far as possible. slowly she will get the hint that you people dont need her. then, even she will not ask u because girls have a bit ego problem. then finally u all will b freed from her.
try it, without being emotional, but strong and will-powered.

2006-10-19 08:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Tell her why you're breaking it. There is a reason people with no friends don't have any, so don't feel sorry for them.

2006-10-19 08:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jegis H. Corbet 4 · 0 0

talk to you other friends about it and maybe you all could talk and tell her what it is that bothers you about her.... If she is just mean telll her that and I would'nt worry too much about her feelings if she doesn't care about anyone elses.

2006-10-19 08:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by Carmie 2 · 0 0

You should tell her straight out.You don't need to put up with this.Just talk to her,if she doesn't get it then punch her inthe face :-) Kidding of course,she would understand...

2006-10-19 08:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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