I have been in communication with a great person who is already my friend.He would like to meet in person face to face and see how we would live together.I have feelings that are strong for him.I also miss him when he is not in communication with me.I do not want to miss an oppurtunity. We always seem to be able to communicate for hours on end.He is from a differnt culture than i am.His way of living is differnt.I am willing to adapt to his way of life and to move to be with him.Just the other day he was on camera for me and my soul felt so good.Am i fallen in love?? Will this work???? What should i do? He will be going to China soon and would like to send for me to come to him.I love to travel and would love to get to know him more.Should i go? He has said i am the best thing in his life and am second to God. He wants me to be his wife.I want it to last.communication with him has been awhile and never badd.
2006-10-19 01:23:16 · 14 answers · asked by Juanita Tsangning 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there is no doubt that you are in love because u have asked this question...
u miss him when he is not communicating with you.
u are ready to change ur self or follow his lifestyle.
when you get his call u really feel as if ur are in the dream world...u feel as if ...everything is with you ,everything is going nice , and in his absence u feel as if everything is going wrong...
u do not get sleep in the night....you always keep dreaming about him.........you dream getting married to him .......future .....
if u have come across all these feelings then "U R IN LOVE".
if u r sure that he is a nice boy ,with good character,careing,loving............then please go ahead ,understand him very well and if u feel that he is ur life partner ,marry and settle ur life in CHINA.he..he..ALL THE BEST........
2006-10-19 04:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by anusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my dear my advice is to be really careful in what you do. you may have strong feelings but you are not certain yet.my advice is that you ask him for some time.he may seem nice on the computer or good at communicating but living with someone FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE and communicating for hours is a different thing.have you made sure whether or not he is a con artist.maybe he is a cheat maybe he is genuinely in love with you.take some friend of yours to a place that neither you nor he has ever been too. go on a vacation there for a month or a few weeks.come to know him and take your friend with you everywhere you both go.if you cant take a friend take someone with you.dont just fall into love blindly after all you may have to spend the rest of your life like that.so dont rush.if he is your true love everything will be fine.dont just trust anyone blindly even if you have strong feelings.dont share this with him now but tell him later on and i am sure he will understand.dont trust any communication device with a relationship but trust your logic, your mind and if these two things approve then go for the heart.good luck
2006-10-19 03:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by s4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going through the details given with your question , it seems to be "Love" but If you have not spent some time together with each other and does not know each others fully, I can not give assuarence that it will be true love. Meet atleast for sometime to be certified if the feelings remain same. If you will never see each other in life time and be with the same feeling , it will be surely "True Love'.
2006-10-19 05:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ..I can say you are in love. ....except do not let this cyberspace developed love blind the possibility of a 'trap'
Do not go overseas to meet him until you really get to know him . If he really loves you, have him pay you several visits to your home and meet up with you and your relatives.
Until you get to meet him in person in your home country, then you can decide on how to move the relationship forward.
Be aware that there were cases of woman being sold into vice thru 'love traps'.
Hope you meet the right person. Wish you love luck !
2006-10-19 01:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When u r hungry but expose to people that u r not hungry,
When u r fillinf sleepy but expose to people that u dont want to sleep at that point of time you wish that ur friend or someone come and say to you that man u r in love. U just want to listen that thing.
2006-10-19 04:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Juanita, only you know your own feelings but please be careful. I think love is only possible when you really know the other person, you've only met via the internet and of course both of you have been out to impress each other but neither of you can truly know the habits and annoyances of the other (sorry - sure neither of you have bad ones - but please consider).
He should come to your place, if he is genuine he will happily do that, to meet you and your family in person so that you can both get to know each other in the safety of your own home. I'm just concerned that if you go with him to China you will find yourself totally dependent on him and possibly unable to decide things for yourself. I'm really sorry if this sounds negative but please consider your safety and also your reputation as what will happen if it doesn't work out as expected. I really hope it all does work out for you, but please take care...Steve
2006-10-19 01:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Steve T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not live with him. Maybe it's the way I was raised but I don't like the idea of living with a man you are not married to. If you want to get to know him, why not visit him? You don't know this man, so why jump into something when you really don't know what you're getting yourself into? Take time to get to know him.
2006-10-19 01:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by Cori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are in love. this is what i would do if i were you, talk to him tell him that you would love to go and be with him but put off marriage untill you have spent enough time with him face to face to see if you are ready for marriage, dont be in a hurry to marry just be happy with him
2006-10-19 01:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT MAKE URGENT DECISIONS AND THEN SUFFER IN LIFE. MORE OVER BEFORE MARRIAGE TRY TO AVOID TRAVELING WITH ANY PERSON B'CAUSE LATER ON MAY BE THESE INCIDENTS MAY AFFECT U R LIFE.
CONSULT U R PARENTS REGARDING THIS.
2006-10-19 01:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by shakthi v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that in my heart, my heart work quickly and my blood too. i think all the time in my boy, i want to talk with him all the time and all days, i call and say "i miss u, i am crazy about u".
i feel happy and smile ever!!!!
2006-10-19 01:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋