Hi Sonu
You remind me of myself when I was your age. To be honest, when you get older (not much, mind you), you will find that your perceived nerdiness is actually kind of cool and your peers will recognise this too. I'm sure the friends that you do have appreciate you for being exactly who you are - think of what you already offer - conversation, your own personal wit and charm, which I'm sure is there.
A mind that is thirsty for knowledge is an appealing mind and also a very attractive quality. Don't stress too much on what you feel you are lacking, concentrate on what you are good at and never stop trying to excel. Books rock, music rocks and the internet is here to stay - so you're already half way there.
I can't offer much more than this, except trust me when I say that you are probably more popular than you think and if your current circle of friends doesn't see you that way, well you just need to find yourself a group of like minded buddies
2006-10-19 00:48:55
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answered by LadyRebecca 6
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being good at studies doesnt mean being nerdy.well the best way to be popular is to have a dynamic personality.cut loose and feel free when in their company.dont try to be someone.believe me i tried that and all i got was a painful year of being someone i was not.then i gave it all up and started being myself that is sweet, helpful, funny, sharp and warm. your looks wont affect them more than a minisecond of admiration.if they are your friends they will like you for who you are.yet if you wanna be popular be nice and funny.do lovable mischief's when in class that doesnt interfere with your studies.most of all make your self a good person with an addictive personality.for example if you are interested in music get your fav music and tell your friends about it.check out new games on the net and tell them about it.if they think you are a nerd then be he coolest one on earth.being cool really means being yourself and knowing how you want yourself to be.if you try to act in a way that you dont want to be you will be a wannabe loser.believe in your talents and show it to them.have private jokes and some gool old boyish fun with them.studies are important but you need to do more in your life.good luck!
2006-10-19 11:09:05
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answered by s4e 2
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Take up martial arts. It won't help immediately It's just good to do. In later life the fact that you were good at studies will bring good results. For now since your not interested in sports but you are interested in music you could buy an electric guitar and learn to play it. Once they hear you pumping out some sh*t hot tunes they should reconsider their opinion.
If you choose this option, email me and I will email you some instructions for reading tabs (guitar music), recommend some tab websites and easy songs to learn.
2006-10-19 07:55:01
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answered by Jegis H. Corbet 4
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Ok, here's your basic problem. Stop trying to make them feel they are wrong ! You only have to prove something to yourself and, of course, your parents. It's futile to attempt to change others; you must work on changing yourself.
If they call you a nerd, tell them that it's not easy being one ! Watch what happens.
Good luck
2006-10-19 08:26:03
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answered by fuzzywuzzy 2
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I always was the some ,but u are not the one that have to fit in.They are the ones that have to fit in.So u just be yourself thats what going to help u in the futher to came.So don't be someone el
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2006-10-19 11:44:22
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answered by Cindy-pooh C 1
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why do u care for u r friends , build up u r own interest in what ever u want. If they neglect u , u r not the loser so live by u r own principles.
2006-10-19 10:09:03
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answered by shakthi v 2
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take a initative in doing certain things at school like partcipate in dance , music ...according to ur interest. show that ur bold & independent person.
2006-10-19 11:36:54
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answered by amithaa 3
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well just be your self and show them you don't care and its hard at that age every one knows but change your self wont do it just talk to them and you'll find out sometime you have nothing in common and you lose your real friends just do what you want we really can't help we can guide you but this wont help
2006-10-19 08:15:11
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answered by pumpkin amy 1
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change your physical appearance alittle. go for something more 'in'. make it known to others that you do like music and all tht other 'cool' stuff..engage in conversations that allow others to know you're more than just books and studies. hang in there hot ****.
2006-10-19 07:45:58
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answered by Anonymous
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by making them laugh. You can do this by joking or saying funny things inbetween your conversation
2006-10-19 09:52:11
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answered by Amit Mishra 1
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