I do enjoy the other guys company, he makes me laugh and is really funny. I know that i dont like him becuz im really in love with his mate, who dont really wana be wit me. He calls me everynite and talks for about 2 hours, i feel guilty about putting the phone down on him because i dont no whether he is just innocent. not everyone has other intentions. He drops alot of hints and flirts loads. I dont like him, he's ugly!!!!
2006-10-19 00:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by sally 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tell him you don't fancy him but want to be mates - if he continues flirting then you'll have to get some space
2006-10-19 00:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could well be that the guy you're in love with is not making a move on you cos his friend is, and obviously fancies you. You should tell him that you enjoy being friends with him but nothing more. Hopefully he'll then tone it down a bit, and leave the way open for the guy you really want. Can't you let this guy know you really want him?
2006-10-19 02:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, if I was his gf, and you said that to me, I`d think you were a bad friend. I`m sure thats not the case, thats just how it seems. I would say just be a really good friend to her for now. Be the type of person she can tell anything to and who she can depend on and have fun around too. Give it a while and they`ll probably break up. After they break up, be there for her and wait until she`s completely over him to tell her that you like her. I know its hard, but you should really try to wait. Hope it helps.
2016-05-22 01:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sally
Just let him know that you fancy his mate(but you like him as a fiend) Matbe he could put a good word in for you with the one you do fancy Good luck Sally
2006-10-19 00:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obvioulsy likes you, and the one you want, his friend, will never go through on you cause his friend likes you so much. You HAVE to tell this guy that you dont like him in that way, make it so clear that you dont like him so that he tells his mate, the one you like, who might like you but is not doing anything about it cause his mate likes you, but if his mate tells him, he might just move to you.
Dont pretend to this guy that you dont know he likes you, its obvious and your leading him on slightly buy letting him flirt with you. Its TOTALLY cool to flirt man, i am a natural, but you like someone else, so do YOURSELF a favour and get rid of them both and go out and enjoy yourself.
xx goodluck.
2006-10-19 00:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.....Hi update ur profile so i can email u my number or email me yours. oh why'll i'm here i'll answer this for u... This is a tough one as u clearly dont wanna hurt this guy's feelings if he is looking for more, all u can do to make him aware ur not interested in him in that way is to talk to him about guys u fancy, he'll pick up on the fact that u wouldn't be telling him this if u liked him.
see u friday nite.......?
take care x
2006-10-19 01:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by KIPPAX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the best policy....just chat to him, tell him how you feel, that you like his friendship but nothing else and you are happily in love....keep it private and it should be ok...if he only wants you as a potential love thing, he'll go away, but you don't need him anyway, so its ok ...good luck
2006-10-19 00:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth that you don't want A relationship with him you want to stay really good Friends but hey i like your mate hope things work out for you good luck..........
2006-10-19 01:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about him, but openly tell him that you don't want him. he will leave you when he knows the reality, otherwise it's upto him.
2006-10-19 00:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him down gently
its the best way
2006-10-19 01:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋