My boyfriend and i have been going out for 10 months now, I do love him the problem is we never go out together. Its always his home and the other day i asked him to give me a hug he refused for no apparent reason. I don't know sometimes i feel i should dump him, but i still don't have the guards to do so. Is it a guy thing or does he has some kind of PROBLEM?
2006-10-19 00:00:34 · 17 answers · asked by Tahisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some thing is very wrong if when you ask him to give you a hug a refuses!!!
My ex used to say that she needed her personal space and didnt like to hold hands, couldnt stand her feet being touched etc. Anyway Im all touchy feely and need to hug or be hugged. So it didnt work out.
I think you should ask why he wont hug you!! My ex's excuse "I was in her personal space" Funny I never had a problem with it the other way round.
Good luck
P.s. if he doesnt change dump him and move on.
2006-10-19 00:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump him. This is coming from a very intelligent guy. He doesn't go out with you and doesn't hug you (and I hate to say this but) for some reason and you probably are attractive, but he doesn't find you attractive anymore. Him not wanting to hug you is a definite sign. Not going out with you is a definite sign. You need to dump him but you can't find the strength because you love him alot more than he loves you. email mattstanislaw@yahoo.com Please dump him before you get hurt. Believe me I'm right. The longer you wait, the more it's gonna hurt.
2006-10-19 00:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Matt S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not a guy thing! My bf is very affectionate! First, why doesn't he carry you out? If he loves you he would be proud to carry you out! What do ya'll do at his house, just have sex? You need to find someone who has respect for you and you need to have respect for your self! Dump him!
2006-10-19 00:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he loved you he would hug you all the time, cuddles are great , we all need them, unless he has problems, ask him for a nice long cuddle, see what he says! Do you sleep together , are you intimate in other ways?
2006-10-19 00:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people are more touchy feely than others. My father is a good hugger but his father wasn't.
But, for you to ask and he refuse -- hmmmm.
Respond to your gut feeling -- it's usually right.
2006-10-19 00:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by JB 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not a guy thing, I for one love hugs, and I often kiss my lady to show her how much I love her.
2006-10-19 00:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Screw him... if he isn't giving you the attention you deserve find someone else there are still a few of us chival blokes out there.
2006-10-19 00:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by Casey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kinda boy is that he doesnt want to hug you?? he has a PROBLEM
2006-10-19 00:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by maluchick 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boring! I got 5 words in and I couldn't continue with you question. 2 points!
2006-10-19 00:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes there is a problem and lets hope its not another girl--sense he wont go out [together]
2006-10-19 00:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by ash 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋