How does it make you feel? when you're home watching maybe;Oprah or soap operas and your mate is in his own area on the computer watching porn or visiting porn websites and masturbating?---- what is the big deal?at some times i've found myself in my comp...room staring and getting that eager load off.some woman have a problem with that. its either that or we'll come where to bug you for a shot of *ss or a b\job.usually that ends up the ol' send him packing routine. do you consider it cheating? let me know so i can help someone with similar situations. it's hard to answer to something when i'm doing it myself..or should we just incoporate another woman?
2006-10-18 23:49:19 · 8 answers · asked by Denton P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lol i don't watch oprah nor soap operas but i don't consider it cheating . I am a very open minded woman and there is times when even i feel the need and well if you are an adult i see no problem. (wink)
2006-10-18 23:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's a thought--don't go to porn sites in the first place and then it won't be a problem. Try a little self control instead of acting like a randy 12 year old. Yes its a form of cheating as well as just plan immature.
2006-10-19 07:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by golden oldy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't consider that to be cheating, but if the guy took the time to make his lady feel wanted, needed, sexy, and craved all the time, she'd be watching less TV and he'd have no need for looking at porn...they'd be too busy making love...
2006-10-19 07:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went thru that with my "X". But that was only a small part of us splitting up. It hurt me to find out what he was doing. He would not have liked it if I did that. Maybe if you would show your wife or girlfriend more attention....you would not need to be with your computer..... thats pretty bad!
2006-10-19 06:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have a mate to do stuff with, not to do the job urself, or else u should leave ur GF & work it out alone.
2006-10-19 06:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by loza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would feel like i wasnt doing enough for him so he has to go off and watch porn to please himself!!! I dont consider it cheating but maybe instead of watching porn he could tell his girlfriend/wife what she needs to do to satisfy him!!
2006-10-19 06:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jess B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stop before you go blind. Find another dude and do it together
2006-10-19 06:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your a classy guy!
2006-10-19 06:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by marcus p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋