i have alot of friends..they all are there for me in a way but ever since i broke up with my bf, i feel like i am really alone in this world.. after all,we're all looking through different lences.. nobody understands me..nobody feels what i feel with me..it used to be my bf's job but now that he's gone.. i'm lost..
2006-10-18 23:28:20 · 19 answers · asked by Karine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Learn how to move on.
Count your blessings.
Make use of what you have.
Don't focus on the negative things in life.
Rather, start appreciating what you have.
The world has so much to offer if you would simply allow it.
2006-10-18 23:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by math 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You just have to move on, there is no other choice. I started to write about how you should be more independent, and not so reliant on other people for support, but as I thought of it more from the view of "what would it take to help if that happened to me?"...I realize that I would be in pretty much the same situation as you.
Have you really tried talking to your friends? Maybe you have mistaken acquaintances for friends here. Hopefully friends would understand, and help you past this.
2006-10-19 06:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hello dear,
You are in previous satge which i had some year ago .When i was in love with a girl , i use to think that i will die if she goes aways from my life. But really she is not serious with me. All her affection etc are just .... i dont have words to express it.
Anyway i concentrated in my life ,carrier etc. Now i am totally changed . Now she is nothing to me only bcos she dont want to care abt my feelings and affection honestly.
Now you forget abt him. Enjoy your life with your friends as you missed nothing. its true you lost nothing .
There is a plenty of lonely hearts living and you can find a best one for you .till that you enjoy your single life.
I got a SMS yesterday
When there is no love , then you are missing soemthing
But when you are in love you miss everything in life.
So have a nice day dear bye.you can message me if u need any hlep from me .
thanku & Bye
2006-10-19 06:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by biker 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When life throws us a curve, it is natural to feel "introspective". Like you are alone, and viewing life through a new set of eyes.
When I had left my husband of 20 years, I experienced an "out of body" experience, where I went through the motions, but I wasn't really there. Like I was watching someone else's life unfold. Your friends are there, and they are and they care. Your happiness lies within you, not your b/f. It is your job, no one else's to be happy. That is why I left my husband after 20 years. I had to do what it took to make myself happy.
2006-10-19 06:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by Qusan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know, me too am feeling alone as i was in love with someone and she said as she was already married and am not someone who has been always been victorious in love, but you this don't stop me to live, i always smile and help people; i try to bury feeling inside. You should forget your past and think of present and plan for your future, someone will come will hold your hand and it would be someone who will love till the end. Have patience..
2006-10-19 06:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by Abhishek 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Firstly, I want to say I'm so very sorry about the beakup. There a lot of people out there in this old world who feel so alone in life, I'm one of them. You don't have to be alone if you don't want to be, they say there is someone for everyone. I know there is someone out there for you, I don't know if he will find you or you will find him. But I do know he will be so fortunate to have you. Good Luck.
2006-10-19 06:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Remember you are the one who broke up with him, so you say. Life goes on, get out there and meet some new people. If you broke up with him there must have been a reason, you not telling us what that is. Drag yourself off the couch and get out there and live.
2006-10-19 06:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please.stop the whining and self pity, look at yourself, the puting sad look, you have whining **** written all over you. lighten up, and when you get pulled, do O AN Outdoor anything he wants and never complain..as you already know that depression and loneliness are waiting
2006-10-19 06:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have believed the myth that you are not 'whole' without a boyfriend. American culture has taught your generation to search, latch on to, and suffocate, your 'soulmate' for all eternity without having put in the effort to find your own sense of self-esteem.
You earn self-respect. Your boyfriend is gone now and it was never his job to 'cheer' you up.
Grow up.
2006-10-19 06:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you will have any problems find someone to take his place. Nobody is going to understand you but I won't take long to get over this hurdle. It may take a little while but you'll be fine.
2006-10-19 06:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋