I m maharashtrian and i had affair with one sikh boy we luv each other very mch but he is very rich as compare me, hi have family status , family business, and all that. We married with each other in gurdwara no one didnt know abt that only he and me but now he marriy with another sikh girl (she is also very rich and good looking )wherever his family told. and now he told that marriege is illegal none of know abt it. is this right or wrong. Now what i do ? Please suggest ?
2006-10-18 23:14:55 · 11 answers · asked by ssaigal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In such cases, love will never be enough - he is gone to you forever. Tell your boyfriend that he has shamed you and dishonoured your family, and that your father demands compensation.
2006-10-18 23:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont knw ,how much serious you are abt this marriage cos you question like that . I am sorry if i am hurting.
Do you have any legal proofs of your marriage.or atleast any love letters .. etc If u have anything like that then dont wait just go with your parents first and talk . (You do all this only if u love him still ) If he still doesnt agree then i am sorry to say not to expose much abt your issue.Cos this society is ready to watch and enjoy when others suffer.
Or otherwise start a new life by concentrating in ur family business or education. Surely You will find a good one in ur life.
The last choice is to meet him legally . This wont work always.Cos only money speaks everywhere , no justice in people.
Better You forget that stupid......... and start your own life.
I wish you all the best for your better future and i am ready if u need any support frm my end.
2006-10-18 23:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by biker 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u should have thought about it first only.
at the early age one falls in love but that is not a love but it is just a ifatuation between them.
now if u have any prove which can prove that he had married u than just go to the court and face him in the court and get ur right back.
but if u don't have any such prove that means no one know about ur marrige than just forget it like a nightmare and live ur life and u wount face any problem again in life.
after ur marrige don't get tensed that he will blackmail u because if u don't have any prove supporting it nor he will have.
SO ENJOY UR LIFE
BEST OF LUCK FOR UR FUTURE
MAY U LIVE A GREAT LIFE
2006-10-19 00:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is so inconsiderate to marry someone else for looks and money then tell him he has to choose.go to him one day and tell him to his face that he has to either choose you orthe other girl.and if he chooses the other girl stay strong.tell him to sign a divorce paper if the marriage was legalized if it was not then no problem.you have your life ahead of you.if he chooses money he wont ever be happy in his life.a decision like this should not ruin your life.study, have a career and marry someone else.the only way you can make him regret his decision is by being happy and successful.also if he really loves you he will choose you and then you both can move somewhere and live a nice quiet life.if he agrees to you then he wont be afraid of anyone in this world!
2006-10-19 04:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by s4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a proverb:
" We do first and think later",
(if we fail ). They never apply
their mind and they live for
the moment and PHOREN
Country, Phoren Wife, and
all Phoren Rubbish.
My sympathies with you. Pl.
forget him. The Granthi of the
Gurdwara will also tell lie to
protect the Sikh boy and further
hurt you.
2006-10-19 00:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by pianist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you r in serious trouble because ur marriage is not legally proved till u have some documents with you.
Consult a lawyer if possible.
2006-10-20 21:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by hotchocredrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him don't go after him. he just doesn't understand one's feelings. and don't tell any1 about ur secret marriage.this would create problems in ur future marriage as u r an Indian.
he is not worth u . u would surely find someone who cares 4 u truly.
i would just suggest u a thing that ---- the one who loves u would care 4 u more than the one whom u love.
understood.
better luck next time.
2006-10-18 23:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by cutey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have any official evidence of this marriage,I'm afraid you can't do much.
Even if you have some such document, think carefully whether you would want to have any further relationship with this man.
2006-10-22 04:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say thanks to god. Cos you are escaped from becoming a mother of Fool( You know) Sardarjees are the great fools in the world.
2006-10-18 23:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by Santhoshkumar.S k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U DONT HAVE BRAINS. U DON'T WATCH MOVIES. IN HOW MANY MOVIES THEY HAVE SHOWN THIS AND STILL U HAVE DONE THE SAME MISTAKE.
TALK TO U R PARENTS REGARDING THIS AND SUE THAT BASTARD IN THE COURT
2006-10-19 01:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by shakthi v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋