If a woman is REALLY as attracted to guys who are completely at peace with themselves as the rumors claim her to be, why does she always try to change the person? Why is she attracted at all to this man who apparently NEEDS changing if he's not Mr. Right to begin with?
2006-10-18 21:57:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
heh, reminds me of the saying
men marry women thinking they won't change, but they do.
women marry men thinking they can change, but they don't.
2006-10-18 22:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men as women do change with time. Also you can not claim a person to be Mr or Mrs right if you havent spend at least six months with him/her. This period will enable you to prove if what he/she is saying is who he/she is or he/she is pretending. A number of people pretend to be good but one can not going on pretending for a long period, after some time he/she will reveal the real part of him/herself. On my side that is why people do change parters
2006-10-18 22:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mama A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men call it "trying to change a person", women call it "trying to meet each other half way".
A woman's tendency to cope and modify her lifestyle to compromise for a better life with her partner is high and she expects the same from the man she wants to be with. But men are different, they set the rules they go by in life and do not like changing it.
If each one sticks to their ways without consideration to their partner, they will never meet at one point and relationships won't ever continue.
2006-10-18 22:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unfortunately us girls can never find our mr right and those who come close to it are really lucky i say. Generally speaking women find a guys who is wonderful, they date and then all the habits start coming out soon enough what was cute about him just runs you right up the wall.
2006-10-19 02:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have often wondered that! I mean you fall in love with a person the way they are. Then they try to change them. and Those that change,usually end in divorce because.... he's not the man she loved and married! pfffft so dumb!
2006-10-18 22:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
becasue the guys who are happy with who they are, usually tend to just be comfortable with what they do and think that its okay. the fact that they are comfortable with these things makes them shine a certain way- then we realize what those things are and we dont like them. like drinking gallons of whiskey or stealing cars or something.
2006-10-18 22:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by mad_fem_bot 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
manipulation? power? I dont know its the million dollar question,if you find out let us all know.
2006-10-19 07:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by steveshoardhouse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-18 22:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by idjit27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cha
2006-10-18 23:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by evening_dewpoint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get laid
2006-10-18 22:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋