hmm..what do you reckon?

Question

well my ex whom i have not spoken to for about one and a half years suddenly sent me an email msg only saying 'i miss you'...that's it..
but in the past he has been sending emails on and off but i have not been replying at all. but todays msg was the first time he said it... previously it was just about sending his regards etc.
so...what do you guys think?

Answer 1

I am not a guy, but I can tell you. He just broke up with a girlfriend and he is feeling lonely. Maybe he wants to get back with you, but maybe too you should think about what it was that broke you two up. He might think you still have feelings for him and he can just snap his fingers and get back into the sack. Wise up, and go on with your life and get a guy who cares about you. I bet the guys will not necessarily tell you this, they will be giving away their secrets. Let him do more than just say he misses you, what about a call, a date, or something like that. He does not want to be the one rejected, but he has to do more.

Answer 2

It sounds like he moved on but likes to keep you with a constant reminder of him and the past so you can't move on - he likes to stay in your head.

Why youtwo broke up matters - as far as you contacting him or wanting to get back together - think about it.. what was good about the relationship and what was not - weigh the pros and cons. Also, do you miss him or are you maybe just a little lonely so you feel like why not? Think about why you are even considering getting back or talking to someone you moved on from over a year ago - there must be some reason why it ended and if you really wanted to be with him, you would have contacted him previously even though he did not say what he did now.

Sometimes the past is better off left there - in the past.. to let go and move on. So - you just have to think about it. If there were things that you did not like about him then, chances are all of them are still a part of him so it is your choice to try to give it another shot.. sometimes - mostly though -- if something did not work once, it is likely to not work again.
:o)

Answer 3

Is he an ex for a reason or what? If you would like to resume the relationship be friendly. If not, regards are ok, but keep it to something you would respond to a very distant aquaintance with otherwise he may get the wrong idea.

HTH

Answer 4

Hmm....a year and a half you say? That sounds like just about enough time for his new love interest to get tired of him so he's back to thinking of you. My guess is he's on the rebound. Steer clear for safety's sake. But if you decide to pursue it anyway, definitely approach with caution.

Answer 5

i'm not a guy but i'm going to give you my opinion anyway. i think he may just be messing with you.if he hasn't talked to you in all that time and you didn't reply he probably figures if he says that then he'll get a rise out of you and you'll answer or maybe a female found your email address and is messing with you. remember why you aren't together.

Answer 6

He thinks you are an easy lay and is bored. He wants to use you for sex and wants you just to see if he can have you again, not because he 'misses' you. He wants to seduce you to boost his ego. He is probably desperate. He lied to you before and started to sleep around before. Why trust him again. Remember when he told you he needed his 'space'? He wanted to sleep with your sister, that's why....

Answer 7

Forget him...if he misses you,why did hepart ways with you in the first place?

Answer 8

You're on his mind, he misses you! But if you're not interested in hooking back up, ignore it.

Answer 9

Depends if you want to talk to him or not. If you want to talk with him, reply back. If not, let him know.

Answer 10

i reckon im hotter than ur ex