Is happiness what you make it, or does it make you? Forgiving others, loving, not trying to control, giving compulsive obsessions, does this make you happiest, or still have to hold on to stuff you cannot control? How does it make others feel who love you?
2006-10-18 20:53:08 · 26 answers · asked by shardf 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
2.
-got no friends in this new place
-my old friends don't bother to instant msg me.
-got no bf, got dumped, got cheated on kinda
-got no money
-my dad think's im a nobody (he's no hero either)
*atleast, i've got a home, goes to school, got my pc....
i can settle with this so far..
pretty much ignoring what you can't control and what gives you the crappy times, and focus instead on what you can control & have is a start... of happiness. counting every drop of blessing, after all behind the gray clouds, the sun still continues to shine..
2006-10-18 21:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by silver_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5
2006-10-19 04:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by CJunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 52 right now and I like myself very much, I have two grown married daughters a great husband and a granddaughter I would die for. I didn't even know this kind of love existed til my daughter had her. I did not always like myself it took til about 35 when I took a good look at myself and decided, hell I am a good person, a good mom and a happy with where I am right now. I have 3 very good friends so I consider myself a wealthy woman, and a lucky one too. So I think life is what you make it. Don't expect others to be responsible for your happiness. If you want something go out there and work for it and get it. You will like you so much more if you do. I know I am no ones victim that is for sure. I am a winner. I am pleased with how my life is and my families too.
2006-10-19 04:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 9-10 in my life. I look/feel into my heart/myself, not at whats happened in my life, or where Ive been, what I have done.
I feel inside that I am being the best person I can be for today. I look at being healthy, and love that I can give to others, the blue sky, green grass, trees changing colors, being able to live a good and healthy life.
If you can do these other things, no obsessions,not controlling, forgiving others, then you are a better person in this world then others can and are.
2006-10-19 04:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by In Love n confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like to control or be controled. I would say my happiness is a "8" giving it that because I wish I had a different job & a better car. But with my bf, we r pretty happy. He does what he wants and I do what I want. We have been together for 8 yrs & neither one of us has cheated or anything like that. We forgive one another for mistakes & don't hold them against each other.
2006-10-19 04:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is an emotion, and all emotions are part of the mind. Therefore, in order for it to exist, it must have an opposite; a background, if you would, to contrast it so that you can sense it.
I do not chase or seek happiness. I just shed myself of these burdens and when they are gone all that is left is peace. How peaceful am I on a scale of 1-10 right now? Probably about an 8.
Peace be with you.
2006-10-19 03:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by greenguy415 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a solid 9,,wife still the love of my life,kids are all doing well,all living very happy and productive lives,only one left at home will graduate high school this year and has several colleges contacting him to play football.his h.s.team has already earned a spot in the state playoffs.get to spoil my grandkids quite a bit,nothing says love quite as those two small words? pa-paw
fridge is full,,hottub set at 100 degrees,big screen to be delivered in 2 days,the lord is in our lives and we have been blessed
2006-10-19 04:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by FOBU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10. I have a loving & caring BF, caring family & friends. Try to look things more positive & u will feel happy. Life is short, don't let unpleasant things hang around you. And let bygones be bygones. I am sure u can b as happy like ME... Cheers!
2006-10-19 04:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by kudos Qi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7... maybe I'm with the negative side ... I'll never forgive someone Hart me & i love controlling but at the same time i make people happy ... so the result wilbe : 7
2006-10-19 03:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by japan:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now i am as happy as i can be i am with the person i love and i am trying to help people figure out some problems that is hard for them to figure out on there own that makes me and my girl as happy as we ever can be
2006-10-19 03:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋