Im in a pickle. I cannot forget him for several resons..the most important one being that I still have feelings for him... And, he Keeps on calling, and IM ing and...its just so difficult, becuse I still look forward to those things. He wasnt;s me back but...I dont know. Just need advise on moving forward. Thanks. (And If anything is mispelled, Im sorry.)
2006-10-18 19:32:06 · 11 answers · asked by Angel of Man 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sound like you still care for him but if you don't really want to take him back, you have to go cold turkey. just ignore the calls, no IMs, and if there are kids involved find and mutual person and you drop the kids to them at one time and let him pick them up at another time. good luck
2006-10-18 19:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by sngozig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's best when breaking up to go cold turkey for a long while afterwards. The idea that you can just be friends is foolish I think. The break-up implies a breach in the contract, which can never be mended. Some vital component of love and the potential for a long term commitment has been irrevocably lost. So all you can do is move on, and keep moving forward.
2006-10-18 19:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a good look at the situation and decide what best for YOU in the end. If you're having trouble deciding what to do (which I know, is hard when you're inside the situation) seek outside help, there are many low cost/free counseling services out there, maybe a fresh perspective will help clear some things up for you.
Good luck!
2006-10-18 19:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys are kind of like drugs....sometimes they keep callin sometimes the supply runs complete dry, but either way ur gonna go thru withdrawls and the best way to get completely over them and start a new life...either slowly move him out by not returning as many calls until you return none, tell him straight up to back off...or if u really REALLY are still felling you need to talk it out, see if u can move on with him or move on without him. sounds like u might just need closure. hope that help'd a lil...
2006-10-18 19:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, i am like in the same boat with you, i have liked this guy for ever, but its the other way around he doesnt like me that way...i dont think but i like him that way, i guess the best thing you can do is give it a try and if it works than thats great, but if you dont give it a try than you will never know if it would have worked out better this time. Good Luck!
2006-10-18 19:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mintiez 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him for a reason. Best is to cool down for a year and then start fresh if you still wants him.Cooling period is very important, because it will give you a clear mind to think. Then you can think what is best for you (with your best unclouded judgement).
2006-10-18 19:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It dependes what couses your problems if is unforgerable, then you are right you need to move on, but remeber every one in this planet have problem of his own. May be the next one will be worst.
2006-10-18 19:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ali M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your focus on your job or some hobby, get out more often with your friends and for God sake don¸t answer his call for a while cause it only makes you more vulnerable.
2006-10-18 19:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number or have some guy answer your phone the next time he calls
2006-10-18 19:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Math geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should keep it in your mind why you broke up with him in the first place. ask yourself if these reasons have changed, has he changed, etc. if not....move on....also keep in mind when someone is losing someone they will and do change until they get you back...so be careful. i say if you can tough it out a little longer, you are better off.
2006-10-18 19:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by hamhead 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋