I have made a close knit group of friends. One of the girls in the group is majorly GHETTO! Shes lound shes obnoxious, rude, a skank, ugly, not a compassionate bone in her body.
I grew up being taught not to take any ones crap. I feel like I shouldnt have to deal with her. I think everybody should feel like this, and this is how I feel: I love myself more.
To me if I have to drop the whole group to have some peace of mind to be away from her Ill do it. because I love myself more than I love any of them. I DONT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH BULLCRAP from anybody. And I wont. Why does this have to be clasified as being bitchy?
I have ideal and beliefs and noone is going to change my mind easily, if at all. Everything I do, is with purpose. Im in college when I go to eat food with friends at the cafe, when Im done I want to leave. I ate now Im done. So can I go? Why if I leave is that bi*chy?
2006-10-18 19:20:43 · 18 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
For the most part I am sweet, friendly, and compassionate. Im a loving person. I hear this all the time. The thing is when I have a moment and I turn into a bi*ch, people cant seem to get over it. Its as if I was never a nice person a day in my life! Why is this?
2006-10-18 19:23:54 · update #1
ok now I think you guys are being RIDICULOUS. The basis of this post is theres a girl I dont like. because she is lound obnoxious etc....YOU MEAN TO TELL ME YOU ALL WOULD DEAL WITH SOMEONE LIKE THIS? Some one who yells and talks loud just randomly for no reason? Im not the only one in the group who feels this way. Its just Im the only who said anything. I have other friends you know. I dotn have to be with this group. How is it that you guys really wonder if I have friends, did I pull that nice description out my butt? Im not insane you know?
Thanks to the people who understand where Im coming from. Who REALLY wants to be friends w/ someone from a ghetto hood movie?
2006-10-18 19:34:02 · update #2
Bitchy? Not necessarily. Total lack of social graces yes; inability to work within social norms absolutely; arrogant and unfriendly totally.
But bitchy? Not necessarily.
2006-10-18 19:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You're not a *****. You just have moods. Everybody has it. Just that some people control them better. I'm sure you're generally a nice person most times (honest speaking). It's probably the time of the month if you know what I mean. Nothing to worry about, if they are true friends they have to accept the way you are. Cranks and all.
2006-10-19 02:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more power to u as long as ur not being pushy and obnoxious ur self,
u dont have to be around people who u dont find interesting/stimulating/ if u dont want too
I personally have a very small circle of friends who Ive gained over the years, we share the same morals/ideals etc
so will u as u grow and move on in life
dont ever be a sheep or forget ur parents teachings
2006-10-19 02:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't see it as bitchy....somewhat militant maybe, but not bitchy. You just sound like you are pretty independent that's all. There's nothing wrong with that but just make sure that you are not totally selfish with how you spread your love around though - yes, love yourself, but love your friends too. Be selective with your friends and it cuts out the bullcrap from those that you would rather not hang with
2006-10-19 02:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you from a whole in the wall, but from reading your comments, sure sound like a B*tch to me...
Stop being so damned judgemental, and on that high horse of yours... You sit down to sh*t just like the rest of us. Problem is, your man ain't hitting it right... thats why you got all this free time to think about this BS you yapping bout. If he was, you'd find a lot less to complain about... Or at least other things... Like how your gonna wash all that J*z out your wig... or why he keep telling you your food taste like crap!
2006-10-19 02:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kontra~Diction 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not really bitchy, but don't leave your friends for one little " obnoxious, rude, skanky, ugly, not a compassiontate bone in her body" *****!!! If they're your friends talk to them and they will understand. But by dropping all of them for that one girl, now that does seem pretty bitchy to me...
2006-10-19 02:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by kendra dowson 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You gotta to stick to what you believe and you should not have to put up with friends like that I think that you should find friends that will treat you the same way as you want to be treated
2006-10-19 02:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by nette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in short no you are not. You are completely justified in your beliefs and are right in your beliefs, you need to keep youself on track and not stop because of something like that. You have your act together in my opinion and that is a rare thing to see. I applaud it.
2006-10-19 02:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't mean that you're a bittch. You're being who you are, and there is nothing cooler than that. Besides, we, as women have to be bittches at one point, cause sometimes that is all we have to hold on to.
2006-10-19 02:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a bi*ch... just determined not to put up with crap... loving yourself is a good attitude.
2006-10-19 02:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋