I have been in-loved on one of my guy best friends but he didn't know it because i have no courage to tell him

Question

about it because if i open it up to him, i'm sure that he will be regreting the time that he met and have been close to me since we're in the 3rd grade.... i think i can't do it because if i did, i'm sure that he trust me with his whole life since we met each other... he let me to know his secrets about his family, friends and even the girl that he loved but then if i will do this damned thing, i will cause him a serious problem and i will hurt him so much and i can't see him like that even in my imagination! everytime he say the name of the one he loved, i still smile on it but the truth is not the one i am showing him! everytime he say it... i've been hurting myself for being so stupid because i can't tell him what i really feel about it..... PLEASE GIVE THE ADVICE THAT WILL NOT HURT HIM IN A WAY BUT I CAN SAY HOW I REALLY FEEL FOR HIM... PLEASE HELP ME ABOUT THIS DAMNED FEELING.....

Answer 1

you've been friends since 3rd grade right? so you have this friendship going on for years now. i suppose the foundation is now deeper and stronger. why not tell him to have a heart to heart talk? you probably should have done that 'talk' many times already. then tell him that you have something important to say, no reaction is needed. just state a statement about your feelings for him. who knows what will happen. there are risks here, either he takes it easily with a nod or a smile of flattery or totally ignore you, but come on if you think he's mature enough to know. what you feel is also important don't you think?

got the same problem, i moved to another country half-way around the world away from a guy best friend without telling him how i feel. and regrets fill me ever since.

good luck. wish you the best outcome. =)

Answer 2

tell him u big whoosie if u guys are really that colse then it wont be akward for too long ...or jus ask a beat around the bush question u know like a set up queastion or ..scene. if u think ur that mesded up u will hurt him then STOP DONT DO IT!!!HAVE NICE DAY!!