my girl does not orgasms even after 30 minutes of play.is it normal or she needs to be treated by a doctor
2006-10-18 18:43:10 · 12 answers · asked by shahidshada 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some women have an orgasm easier than others. The orgasm actually happens in the clitoris (the only organ made for pleasure). The clitoris is not in the vagina, but actually closer to the front of the labia. To orgasm, the clitoris is what needs stimulation. Try letting her be on top, or rubbing it to stimulate.
FYI: Some women actually have a condition that makes it so they physically cannot have an orgasm.
2006-10-18 18:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by NSisifo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask her what you can do so that she does get the O and if she has had them before or can she get them herself. She should know what you need to do or how you can do it togeather. Personally i think womens bodys were built wrong, i can not O without help but you have to be totally comfortable with each other to accomidate this, she may just be shy about it
2006-10-19 00:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by mistiful2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out 1) if her mind is elsewhere and can not relax enough to get into it? 2) If you are not hitting the right spot for her by doing what works for her? 3) if she can have an orgasim by herslef amsturbating? 4) Talk to her openly and find out how she feels and what she needs then try experimenting. Good luck.
2006-10-18 18:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mark n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs a husband who will treat her like a lady and show her how to have a great loving relationship. She's not playing house, so it's time for you to get the marriage license and certificate to really spice up your love life.
2006-10-18 18:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not normal . You need to talk to her and ask what you can do differently to make it better . The problem is that you are missing the spots and she is to shy to tell you . Make her understand that you want to make her happy .
2006-10-18 18:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn how to please her. Obviously, you're not in the right area or she would be cumming.
You need to take time to try to please her. Forget about yourself, and spend time on her clitoris. You will orgasm her eventually if you lick her there.
Do not do what most men do and play around the hole instead. Women don't *** from that! They *** from repetitive manipulation of the clitoris...gently.
Goodluck!
2006-10-18 20:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal. Women are delicate, and sometimes men have the problem of too fast and hard, making your friend kind of numb down there.
2006-10-18 18:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by chicagodooby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women can not orgasm at all. My guess is that your not hittin the SPOT. Does she orgasm when she pleases her self? Ask her what she does n go from there.
2006-10-18 18:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by Hydimyangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't now, she should stimulate her clitoris while having sex. I felt uncomfortable bringing this up with my first husband and had a very unhappy and unfulfilled first marriage...6 whole years...ugh.
2006-10-18 19:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need more practice, I know I used to enjoy it, but it depends on who it is with, too be ullfilled. ask her which way's feel good, have her move you in the direction that feels good.
2006-10-18 18:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by angel1986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋