a red mark came up over my heart line.stayed for years, turned into a caluse.took years to scrap away completly with my finger nails. anyone else every have that happen to them
2006-10-18 18:30:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
Been through a few bumps in the road myself and can say I know the feeling. My suggestion to you is be true to yourself, rejection is rough, but this could mean a new type of beginning for you. Look back on the good times and where you wanted the relationship to go. Then just let it go, maybe everything happens for a reason.
Now if I were in your shoes, well, I would move out, get a gym membership, buy a big screen TV, an X-Box 360, one of those blow up lambs, maybe a lava lamp, a really cool chaise lounge, a furry throw blanket. Then top it all off by throwing a kegger with your friends - make sure to invite that hot chick from the gym that was checking you out last week.
If all else fails, well hell, get a boat and become a pirate!!! Arrrggggghhhh Matey!!!
2006-10-18 18:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by socialfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's never happened to me.
When my love rejects me ... I always go into depression ... kill the parts of my personality that I'm not happy with ... and then emerge as a new person. So, I believe that I literally die when the one I love rejects me ... sure my physical person is still basically the same; but you'd never recognize my personality after my love rejects me.
Your "Red Mark" isn't too far fetched. Dolphins die when they loose their spouse. Heart break can change a persons outer appearance. Why not a red mark. Glad you at least got it scraped away... maybe this is the start of your wonderful new beginning. After all --- all endings are just new beginnings.
2006-10-19 05:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always difficult when you loose someone you love, and when they walk away from you before the "Till death do you part" well you feel as if you have been cheated out of a deal. When my ex left me, I was numb for a long time, I was angry and didnt want to think about dealing with love again. It took some time, but eventually I got over it and now I am with someone that treats me better, shows his love towards me daily, and makes me feel as if there never was or is ever going to be another love in my life.
2006-10-18 18:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by nanners040477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts for awhile but you must move on. A part of you will always love her. But life is short and you need to find someone how will appreciate you for the person you are. I'm sure there is someone out here that will love you the way you deserve to be loved. Good luck. In time all wounds will heal.
2006-10-18 23:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , after I caught her cheating with a coworker I asked her why, simply she answered, because I never loved you! I was crushed for a while but knew it was not true. I let time pass and the divorce. about 2 years later she brought my two girls bye for our Bi-monthly visitation and I could still read her like a book and knew something was wrong. she proceeded to tell me that when she would tell her new husband what her problems and worries were that he would tell her that they were her problems and deal with them, no comfort. She missed the way I would hold her and tell her that we would get through them and that this too will pass! It gave me closure in knowing that I touched her in ways that she will never forget! In love time is truly the best medicine, you will ask and answer your own questions in due time!!!
2006-10-18 20:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by BIG FRITZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can only heal from the inside and it takes a very long time. There is a scar which will always remain, but the heart is strong and collateral vessels will develop which are even stronger
2006-10-18 18:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Giving her more love and perhaps give her 2 times of the monthly allowances.
2006-10-18 18:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by Echo 0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're going through. My husband recently told me this, and my chest aches, right where my heart is. Someone said it was anxiety, but I've had anxiety/panic attacks before, and it was so totally different, and hard to explain. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. :(
2006-10-18 18:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really horrible. I cant even think about that as we both love each other and cannot live without each other. My heartiest condolences to you. I am quite sure she cannot love anyone on this earth. God bless you and her too.
2006-10-20 01:41:11 · answer #9 · answered by udayy2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be inclined to say that it was a visual representation of your grief. the time that it took to scratch it away may well have been the time needed for your heart to heal so that you could move on.
2006-10-18 18:42:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋