He helps me in all the things but still i don't like his going out, coming late or spending more time with friends i don' know why?
2006-10-18 18:30:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Make a committment to change. Tell him to tell you whenever you're being possessive. Promise him and yourself that if you are, and it's noticed, that you'll stop talking and thinking about that and go watch tv or read a book or ask him about how his day was, without him telling exactly what he did.
2006-10-18 18:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want u to ask urslf first WHY? I am a man and think that it's a healthy thing to be possessive. You are doing a great job as a wife. I am sure you are doing great at bed too, if u r so possessive. All u need is self management. Spend as much time as u like with him, do as much as u like with me, he will like it. Just keep reminding urslf that he is a man and a person, and got lots of people to deal with; other then urslf. They too are part of his life and they too deserve part of him and his time. I am sure when u understand this ur lv for him will grow and also ur urge to let him go free to fulfill his duties and needs. Good Luck and keep smiling ;)
2006-10-18 18:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some help in whatever it is that got you feeling so insecure. Something has happened to you in your past that you have not gotten closure on. Until you conquer that you gonna stay upset. Unless your are doing something wrong and that's where the anger is coming from.
2006-10-18 18:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand ur feelings and i think that u have been oogling too much and u r too much in for husband and u should give some space to him so go ahead live ur life and let him live his. try and make friends spend some time with them this way u will be able to give some time for ur self and u will be able to give space to ur hubby and slowly slowly ur possesiveness will decrease and even ur hubby will start liking u more and more.
2006-10-18 20:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by suman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do change yourself. Its an absolute must. The faster the better. You love him. He loves you. Don't spoil this wonderful relationship by slowly turning yourself into a nagging housewife. If it continues, he will start to detest you earlier than you think.
2006-10-18 18:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Extra curricular activity" may be good for the relationship and the sex life. Keeps you thinking and wanting.
2006-10-18 18:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by Dumbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the same way but im just trying to talk to myself that i have to change and hopefully i will :-) but im just trying not to show him how i feel because i will just make him mad and i dont want that... good luck
2006-10-18 18:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you RESPECT his freedom, TRUST him completely and OCCUPY your mind in new hobbies; then you will not feel the need to protect him from anybody and not have the time for it too!
2006-10-18 18:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by GAWD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go
2016-11-05 22:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋