Well when i know that someone realy does not like him but tolerates him.
2006-10-18 18:29:44 · 11 answers · asked by MARTHA W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, that all depends. Is this person that "tolerates" him a friend of yours or simply an aquaintance to the both of you. If this person is a friend of yours, yea you may want to let your husband know... and you may not. Is this person important to your husband? Does your husband have a complex where everyone "has" to like him?
A question like this is difficult to answer without really knowing more on the subject. I say do what you feel is right...
2006-10-18 18:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Whatev' Yo' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not EVERYthing you have to tell your husband, there can be secrets even for husband and wife. But if the matter is in regard to someone who dont like him and yet have been tolerating him all this while, maybe you should tell him. He should self-reflect and analyse the situtation, maybe things might be better afterwards. Hope it turns out well...
2006-10-19 01:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by Princess is here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends on who it is. More than likely he already knows and just has not told you because the fear of hurting your feelings. Well in my opinion i would depending on who it is and if he really likes them. Sometimes its best not to tell so they can think people like them. But sometimes its best to go ahead so they will know cuz you never know on down the line he could be hurt worst by what that person does or says and he's there thinking they were good friends
2006-10-19 01:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by everlasting_matchstick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know for sure about that or just guessing? Is this a man or a woman? Will telling him break up all your relationship with this person or just his?
Does he think highly of this person? Answer all the questions and more if you can think of any,before making any decision.
2006-10-19 01:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by silverman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him you must tell him because a good relationship is based on trust and honesty.. If you know someone who doesn't like him let him know because you're not the one who feels that way.. Though if its something quite serious and you know it will really hurt him tell him over time when he wouldn't be hurt over what you're sayng..
2006-10-19 01:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u ought to tell him in this case...tolerates him????That is really Slack. I hope he doesn't feel close to this person and if he does he should confront them and get it in the open.
2006-10-19 01:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can give him the complete information, no gossip, or supposition, or might be, but the straight goods, than if he could possibly benefit in the long run , yes by all means tell him
2006-10-19 01:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and trust are the two things that make or break a relationship. Be honest with him. IT's better if he finds out things from you thean from someone else.
2006-10-19 01:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by gyrferret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will telling him help the situation? I see more downside than upside. Don't make it more complicated than it is. The simplest answer is probably the correct one.
2006-10-19 01:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by billysimas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should explain to him and hope he were change his feeling, if someone make mistake, they may not know themself.
2006-10-19 01:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by shellman8888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋