i know i made a mistake,but the next day my friend's boyfriend told me that he liked me and now i feel really awful what should i do i need help major.
2006-10-18 18:22:59 · 17 answers · asked by shygirlSasha17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should quit drinking so much! Seriously, if you have to use "I was drunk" as an excuse EVER you need to curb your lifestyle. As for the triangle - I'd tell the guy that you were drunk and made a mistake and that you really care about your friend and can't ever date him.
2006-10-18 18:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to loose a friend ship over a guy then honey I would say that you need to set the guy straight and tell him to put it behind him and to forget about you and that you made a really big mistake and you do not want to loose a friend over a decision you made wile you were drunk. And tell him there is nothing between the two of you and there will never be and hopefully he will drop it and go back to your friend and forget about you. Maybe depending of the kind of person your friend is I would consider talking to her before the action you made gets back to her before you ever tell her what happened. If you tell her first there is a possibility that you might be able to explain to her what happened and that you are very sorry and it will never happen again and you might want to let her know that you were drunk if she doesn't all ready know this. Good luck to you girl I hope every thing turns out for the best.
2006-10-19 01:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Cathy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never slept with a best friend's bf b4 whether in a drunk state. I have however slept with a guy whom a friend was also seeing...they had a break in their relationship and that's when i slept with him (of course not knowing that they were together before). Now i just keep my distance.
You obvious also dig him that's y it happened. U have to ask yourself if the friendship is all that impt to you. you're also young like under 20? some friendships are mean to last and so dun...they just bring you along during this period in your life.
Right now, if you set things straight with your best friend's bf and both of you keep it quiet, you have a 50-50 chance of keeping the friendship. If things are not gonna workout with you, he'll probably stick with her and wont tell.
You tell your best friend that both of you made out? the friendship is definitely gone. Girls aren't that forgiving when it comes to boys, esp at your age. However, if your friendship is over 10 years, or really tight, then there's a much higher chance of salvaging it should you confess.
Whatever it is, friends dun steal other friend's bf, past or present. That's one rule abt being a friend.
2006-10-19 01:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by ikusburples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, blame it on alcohol. I've been drunk around many of my friend's girls but i never wanted to get with them. Do some soul searching about the type of person you really are. Come clean to your homegirl cause she's gonna find out eventually. DON'T take this any further or there will be a lot of hurt and you will end up the loser in the long run.
2006-10-19 01:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by Cool Breeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take that secret to your grave! Tell that guy that it was a mistake and never should have happened...bc it will really hurt the best friend/ girlfriend. Tell him if he doesnt back off and keep this a "drunk mistake" then you will be forced to tell her what happend and how he is still pursueng you.
DO NOT LOOSE A FRIEND OVEE THIS GUY. Guys come and go....friends should last a lifetime.
2006-10-19 01:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yall are really truely bestfriends then she should be able to forgive you. it was mistake and everybody makes those. you didn't mean to do it and you're really sorry about it so if thats your bestfriend then she should be able to forgive you. but don't expect it to happen right away cause she's still in shock of the matter and is hurt and need time to think and heal. but about her boyfriend if he tells you the day after he likes you he more or likely liked you before the kiss and thats probably why it happened. and you need to let her know about her boyfriend. and stay away from him. and i really hope you're not considering being with him because if he does that to your bestfriend he can surely do it to you too.
2006-10-19 01:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by Cutey Cutie QT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This a Good One, well You Date your Friend's Boyfriend But one one Condition He's gotta Break Up with your Friend and he's gotta set her Straight and he's gotta tell her that I'm No Longer in Love with that I'm in love with your best Friend and you gotta Get Along or Back Off.
Do Not Give on Him.
2006-10-19 01:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by tfoley5000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have given the sex to him, why dn't you tell him because you were drunk? Unless you too have fallen for his act.
You still need to leave one of them, of course, your best-friend were be very angry if he is a boy, but if is a girl then you can ask her for help. So don't get yourself so drunk next time.
2006-10-19 01:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by shellman8888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need help, he needs help. break it off with him, tell him cut and dry you want nothing to do with him and then confess this error to your friend and beg for forgiveness. you don't want her hearing this from other people. expect her cold shoulder for a while, but just be infinitely kind and patient with her. she will blame you and being drunk definitely wouldn't excuse your behavior in her eyes. but just do it. it'll be the best thing you do since that drunken party
2006-10-19 01:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by deer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your best friend before she hears about it from someone else.
she will probably be mad for a while, but if you want to salvage your friendship tell her now. and apologize. as far as her boyfriend tellling you he likes you, that's so not important right now. good luck to ya
2006-10-19 01:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋