i love my husband but tired of faking it.i just one to know what its like.but i never thought it was gonna get to the point i was gonna wish to be with another man.am i losing interest in my husband?
2006-10-18 16:38:53 · 19 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you really mess up with another guys, you might lost your husband. probably you will regret it. if you could control yourself, that would be better, you could try to imaging something when you are having sex, probably your husband has same problem.
ahahahahh
why girls only can with one man, why guys can sleeping around,
that is unfair.
2006-10-18 17:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by cecilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there actually another man?????If so, I assume that the other man is being more attentive to you than your husband which is the real reason you are attracted to him. It isn't neccessarily love or sex. It is just being made to feel special and cherished by someone. Sadly, that always seems to fade out with time. Euphoria that is. Actually, thank God it doesn't stay for too long. People get comfortable. The grass isn't always greener on the other side, either. I can only suggest a marriage counselor. Even moreso if children are involved. Child custody is heartbreaking.
2006-10-18 17:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So that's how it all starts, i was wondering about that, ma-by men really arent the cause of alot of adultery problems in this world. Maybe women just arent always satisfied and are always curious. Im just kidding, but u know u shouldnt ever tell your husband that u feel like having sex with another guy, although u should talk to him about stepping it up a little.
2006-10-18 16:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by the sponge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem, only I really love my husband. He just needed some help...some coaching. You need to tell him what you like AND show him. Take your time. Trust me, he wants to "do it" for you. If you're faking it, how is he supposed to know that he needs help? THINK ABOUT IT!
2006-10-18 16:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Kerri B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tired of faking what? orgasm? There are ways girl, read up on it - vibrators, oral sex ... Don't go elsewhere, what if it's the same and you end up losing your husband not to mention the pain you will cause WHEN he finds out. What if he thought of going elsewhere because he was tired of faking it?
2006-10-18 16:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need spice in your relationship. Try dressing up and meeting him at a nice restaurant for a date. Key thing is he doesn't need to see you before you meet him. Or else have him pick you up. You know like when you were dating.
Men have done this for centeries!
2006-10-18 16:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by Dusty R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him, but your not "IN LOVE" with him. Your just bored or maybe your feelings are not the same because you don't spend enough time with eachother. If you want to make it work, find new ideas or stuff to reconnect. If not, just leave, divorce, or find someone new. Luck to you...know exactly how you feel!
2006-10-18 16:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by yole123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try roll playing with your husband, find similar likes and play them out.
2006-10-18 16:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by millerlitetime36 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats a big problem.
it could be he is taking you for granted.
try taking the initiative such as the top position and see how you get on.[no pun intended]
2006-10-18 16:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not dating...you're married.
Talk to your husband and make an appointment to see a marriage counselor.
It's up to both of you to make it work.....you don't quit if you're bored!!!!
2006-10-18 16:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋