some guys think that some girls just go for "bad guys" to change them. i have been reading enough q's and opinions here about that and i answered some. i find it quite amusing.
who's trying to change who exactly? and what made them think that women enter a relationship with a guy to change him?
lol! i find it amusing how guys can be assuming. do you?
2006-10-18 16:33:17 · 19 answers · asked by Inquirer 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
We're just angry because the nice girl chose the "bad guy" and we need an excuse other than that she found the other guy to be more attractive. That's how we maintain our confidence and alpha male attitude. I know it sounds silly, but we're crazy in our own way.
2006-10-19 10:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by eddygordo19 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I figured out what happens when you assume... you make an as$ out of you and... well you know that stupid saying...
Anyway, I thought that for a little while, cause I was always the good guy, but when I was young, I could never hold onto anyone:
I quickly learned that the good guy is just boring...
on the other hand, i also learned that trying to be the bad guy won't get you into a very serious relationship.
So, after trying both, I discovered I can be the bad guy, but still do the good guy stuff, and now I found a great looking girl with a great personality, and she's stickin with me. She says she loves exactly that about me-- that I've got the best of both worlds. It feels good for me too, that I'm not the one trying so hard to be in the relationship. I feel more confident now.
I think confidence, consideration, and a great sense of humor (and being in a good band) are what really got me ahead. But I've learned not to assume anything. It didn't get me anywhere.
my point-- you're exactly right.
2006-10-18 23:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Rockstar 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I assume nothing.
I have known at least five girls who told me that they are attracted to the bad boys, and all of them believed they could change them into good boys.
2006-10-18 23:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps if you didn't use your feminine wiles to keep us twittering like a pinned insect, (You enjoy the feeling of emotional superiority, it's fine--I already know), we {men} would not have to assume.
Ah, but the game of romance is but endeavored one way;
The Women's' Way!
I love all of you because and in spite of this fact.
It's hard being a guy.
Cut us some slack, would ya?
2006-10-19 01:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think most women try and change "bad guys", I just think that it is a turn-on for them.
2006-10-18 23:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of women go for "bad guys" because they can be exciting and fun.
2006-10-18 23:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by Cara Beth 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well here's one you mis-read. Of course I'm older then dirt so I guess that makes up for the difference.
2006-10-18 23:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by AL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys always assume everything, like when they take you out to dinner they assume they're going to get some. LOL
2006-10-18 23:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by locatorchic 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I THINK PEOPLE IN GENERAL ARE ASSUMING. JUST BECAUSE A FEW PEOPLE ACT IN A CERTAIN WAY, DOESN'T MEAN THAT THE ENTIRE GENDER IS ACTING IN THE SAME MANNER.
2006-10-19 03:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, they are very double minded and they think they know everything about us. one thing they know how to do good is cheat. that's the best they can do.
some women need to try and teach their men a lesson, but it is all up to the guy if he is willing to learn it and grow up.
2006-10-18 23:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋