Marriage is always said to get boring after a while..
say, when u first start the honeymoon or whatever ur all excited & turned on..
how many times do u "do it" before it seems boring with this person & u get all turned off?
2006-10-18 16:29:03 · 16 answers · asked by Whatever 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OleMarbleEyes:
actually I think ur lady is very lucky. my question has nuthin to do with how I think, its what most guys think.. they get bored of us girls really easily, they're the ones who curse marriage coz they cant "get some" anywhere else!
2006-10-18 16:45:47 · update #1
Sure am glad I am doing it with someone that doesn't think like you. Going on 14 years with her, and she gets me more excited than the first time.
2006-10-18 16:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well puppy love goes away in about couple years on everedge, but than marriage is about commitment and learning about each other even if it's not going that great, so sometimes we need to make some right choices which are usually the hard once...there are always choices like to go and cheat or to stay faithful and develope more seriouse intimate and deep relationship, sometimes you just need to work on it before you get great results.
2006-10-18 23:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by happydial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never! No really, that usually doesn't happen until after children. Once the kids are 5 and older, it picks up again. A woman can only do so much. Small children take a lot out of you. I never get tired of seeing my man nude! (married 14 years...3 children and loving every minute of it)
2006-10-18 23:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kerri B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't the number of times but the attitude. I would say after the honeymoon when you get into the marital rut routine. When the hubby gets all sloppy, lazy and a remote control fanatic. What a turn off!
2006-10-18 23:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is more along the lines of how strong your relationship still is! If you aren't attractived to your hubby like you were when you first got married than that can come out in your sex life! I would make sure you aren't stressed out about anything as well it is hard having a career, family and a sex life!
2006-10-18 23:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...I don't know about you but I feel better when I'm comfortable showing my body which for me only comes with time. I've been with my husband for many many years and it's definetely changed but not boring. There is more to sex than the act itself.
2006-10-18 23:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm...so far I havnt been married yet...so dunoe what r honeymoon really like... but do have goes holiday with my ex and did all those 'honeymoon' things... I wonder what does you mean by 'do it'? If u mean sex, I guess I dun get bored of it lor... even with the same old girl...
2006-10-18 23:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it isnt usually about getting turned off..its usually about getting into a rut and not keeping it intersting.You have to keep the sex life interesting to keep it from being boring.try new things and dont be shy.It is something that takes work and commitment...so keep the games going!!!
2006-10-18 23:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in marriage, couples need to understand each other and do accept his/her partner.. hurmm couple who were married, must been i love on yesterdays right? so, in that period, they will know, either his/her partner is damn boring or not...
2 me, i'll never be bored with the person that do 'that thing' wif me.. xcept she is so damn greedy and impatient... men need his own space to do sex.. and mostly, let the man decide what he wanna do in the scene...
2006-10-18 23:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by kaneshirou89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married a very long time and I can honestly say I've never been bored.
It's a cliche but it's true....your marriage is what you make it and what you want it to be.
The secret is....you both have to want it equally.
2006-10-18 23:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋