Yesterday went out with a girl friend of mine... we went to movies and had dinner etc... I sent her home to her house at 10th floor. She hugged and kissed me on my lips... I held her awhile but gain 'consious' again and pushed her away. I shouted her not to. Can see her tears drop down and she turned and enter the house... Am I cruel towards her? But she had bf though I'm still single... She was just a normal friend of mine yet she did this. What it means? Today tried sms and called her but she just don't answer or reply. Is she angry? What should I do?
2006-10-18 16:23:56 · 25 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she may be angry at being reject by you (and you shouldnt have shouted at her), but most likely shes angry with herself for doing that to her boyfriend
this is something SHE needs to figure out. you did the right thing, now just give her some space and let her decide what she needs.
2006-10-18 16:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by MRose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize. If she has a boyfriend, she may either like you better or she's just being friendly. If we're not talking about a french kiss, it was still a friendly kiss. Kissing on the lips does not have to be reserved to a romantic relationship. I wish I had more female friends as openly affectionate as she is.
2006-10-18 23:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by iuneedscoachknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a bf stay away from her. Any girl that will kiss another guy when they are attached already is trouble. If you really do want to stay friends explain why you pushed her away. My question for you is: Did you act like the night was friends hanging out or a date?
2006-10-18 23:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by Belly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably more hurt than angry since she cried. but if you just take her as a friend then you shouldn't have taken her to a movie and then dinner, thats like the "typical date" and you shouldn't have pushed her away like that, she probably likes you and if you are not ready to kiss her and just want to be friends, then you should tell her, not shout at her
2006-10-18 23:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably felt rejected and is now embarrassed... send her an email.. or leave a note on her door.. something .. just say that you didn't think you should take advantage of her because she has a boyfriend and you thought she just saw you as a friend and were shocked. see how things go from there.. also say.. that you hope you didn't hurt her feelings... and that you'll give her a call later.. call later that evening...and try to work things out...
2006-10-18 23:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps shouting at her wasn't the best thing to do...
I'm guessing she is angry/upset/confused, give her time and then go around to her place and talk to her face to face. That way, no one is hanging up or not texting back.
Get straight to the point and explain everything.
2006-10-18 23:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she probably is angry and embarrassed. Women don't take rejection very well. We are used to getting what we want. If she has a boyfriend why is she going out with you? Does he know that you are hanging out with her? If not then you should just leave her alone.
2006-10-18 23:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by MsT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'r fallen in her love ... now a days she is too passing through sensitive feelings , so be patient and wait for the time as long as she got setteled with the current situation ... then you better talk to her more friendly
2006-10-18 23:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by Hamid S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone has to apologise...i don think u should be the one. afterall, she has a bf and u did the right thing. im sure IF her bf finds out abt it, he will shake ur hands.
its not cruel, juz dat u did it in a wrong and harsh way.
maybe u were too shocked too think that dat very moment...i would hv get panicky too if i were u.
don worry abt it
2006-10-19 02:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she is angry with you because you are consious. So you are not cruel at all.
2006-10-19 02:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by fong p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋