Just curious. My friends hubby went to a strip club for a bachelor party and she was livid!!! But she's the jealous type anyway. I don't think it's that big of a deal, just wondering other opinions.
2006-10-18 16:16:10 · 26 answers · asked by luvbabysky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes she should get mad because marraige is suppose to be sacred and why should a man want to lust after another woman is he is married he should be with her and only her not even thinking about looking at another woman or what ever it is that he is lusting after at a strip club. If he is looking at someone in that way they need counseling or God in there life because that is lusting after another person and in Gods eyes that is wrong...
2006-10-18 16:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by short but sentimental 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was for a batchelor party then no... If he decided to just one day up and go for no good reason, I might wonder why and ask him. Most of the strippers are legitimate strippers so there would be no touching or anything else.
Every one knows that old saying... if you love something set it free, if it comes back he is yours forever, if it doesnt come back it never was...... this applys to these type of questions... let him do his thing, as long as he comes home to my bed at night.
Men and women will cheat if that is what they want to do and it wont matter if its at a strip club or some kids party .. as long as there are others willing to have affairs with married people it will happen.
2006-10-18 16:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get mad, i'd probably ask to go with him. No I'm not gay, but there's no need to be intimidated or insecure about the women in strip clubs. I can understand why your friend would be mad, but it was just a bachelor party. Let the man have fun. If she doesn't trust him then that's another issue that they need to work on.
2006-10-18 16:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by MsT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that a man going to a strip club is a big deal...I mean it is about trust right?If you dont trust him to go to a strip club then there is something wrong.I have complete trust in my boyfriend,if he is gonna cheat he is gonna do it whether or not i let him go to a strip club.If he wants to go and get all hot and bothered and bring it home to me...HELL YA!!!!LOL..But for real it isnt as a big of a deal as you might think.If thats the worst he does you are doing good.
2006-10-18 16:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told me he was going to a strip club with his friends, I would have no problem. I trust my boyfriend. If he went to a strip club and I found out from a 3rd person... I'd be upset.
2006-10-18 16:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, it's really no big deal. Until he starts going too much and spending money that should go into our home.
But guys are gonna go to those clubs if they really want too.No matter what the girlfriend or wife say, ur friend may have had a reason to get upset over him going, but as I said if they really want to be there they are gonna go.
I just hope she didn't allow it to bother her for too long.
2006-10-18 16:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. What's the sense in getting mad. In most strip clubs you can't touch the girls, anyway. He's going to get extremely horny and come home to be with her. Tell her to lighten up. She' s just going to drive herself to depression for no reason at all.
2006-10-18 17:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad because I believe a married man should not be looking anywhere else but at home to be turned on. If you go to places where temptation is there you are asking for trouble. I don't care what men want to say about not being turned on & yada yada yada! PUHLEASE!!!!!!! What's the point of going to look at naked women? To torture yourself and practice self-control? Men are VISUALLY stimulated. Knowing that, why would I be OK with my husband starting at, fantisizing about and lusting over a skanky stripper?
2006-10-18 17:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a big deal if you're in a trusting, healthy relationship.
Only a big deal if your hubby lied about going, or is trying to be a player.
2006-10-18 16:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by Z Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get jealous too but it's attitude like that which make men look to other women.If i was her i would wait until he gets back an give him the most mind blowing sex he's ever had. He'll surely forget anything he saw interesting at the club
2006-10-18 16:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋