I'm waiting till marriage to have sex. I have been friends with my boyfriend for over a year. We've been dating now for almost 9 months. He totally respects my decision to wait and we love each other very much.
I want to follow what God says and not be looked down upon by Him... even though I'm most likely going to marry my boyfriend someday. We talk about marriage all the time and talk as if we're already engaged. I don't go to church and I'm not religious. But I do believe what God has to say. And I am a God-fearing person. I think that everyone should be.........
Honestly, I don't know anybody else who's waiting till marriage to have sex. Just one friend who is very religious. I'm just wondering how many of you are also waiting... maybe it's more people than I think?
2006-10-18 16:09:32 · 6 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am married now, but my husband and I both waited until our wedding night to have sex for the first time. It was a wonderful decision that I am glad we made. To save your virginity until you are married is the greatest gift you can give to your spouse.
2006-10-18 16:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by sevenofus 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Kelly Kelly Kelly! I may be your new best friend! My bf and I are waiting too! we are going to be engaged in a few months and we boith can't (but will, you know what I mean) wait. We love eachother so much! just check out my qustion, you'll find some answers there. and if you need too, or want to talk, leave me an offline messege on the messenger. ttyl! Jackie
2006-10-18 16:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Elizabeth Swan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation as you. i want to wait until marriage and my bf is completely ok with that, in fact, he's never pushed me at all, its sort of like a silent pact that we have between each other. people get surprised when i tell them that, but most understand. so actually, there's a lot of people like that out there.
2006-10-18 16:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by sweethyedreamer213 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did (and so did my spouse). It is worth it, trust me! Don't let "everyone else" dictate your concience. You know what is right (and you claim to have a boyfriend that is supportive), so reserve that gift for your wedding night.
2006-10-18 16:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A clean conscience is a good pillow.
Stick to your morals and you will be able to sleep peacefully thought all of your life.
2006-10-18 16:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what if you die tomorrow.... you will take the wish of having sex with your boyfriend to your grave. your boyfriend probably have sex with other girls that you are not aware of, therfore he dosn't give a shittt. so do yourself a favor. Have sex, enjoy life as much as you can. marrige certificate is just a legal contract on a piece of paper.
2006-10-18 16:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by cute 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋