did he cheet on me??????????????????

Question

Ill try to make this short, I was at work one night and the phone rang....this lady said"you dont know me but i need to tell you your husband is cheeten on you with a nurse that works at the nursing home (hes a emt). well i totally freeked out because nothing erks me more than a person who cheets. I went home and said are you cheeten on me simply tell me and ill leave before you crawl back in bed with me we argued for hours no he said so to try and get the truth i told him i cheeted on him(i didnt) this made him mad enough to say: i didnt cheet on you but i have been talking to a nurse named penny nothing ever happened(i flipped) i walked out the next day i called and talked to this woman she said no nothing ever happened they were just friends they had went out to luch one day the unknown caller had said they had kissed and he brought her flowers they both denied it this happened last year were back together but i think about it all the time did he cheet you think or am i dwelling???/

Answer 1

U should've gathered more solid evidence before u accused your husband of cheating instead of going by hearsay alone...as u don't know if this person who called u was just trying to start trouble.

Since it's been a yr ago and u took your husband back, then why are u still dwelling on it? I suggest u get some kind of closure for your own peace of mind.

Answer 2

well, first if this person knew what they knew than it is most likley that they kissed and she received flowers, that's cheating enough in my eyes! Besides, boy doesn't want to loose girl lies, nurse that doesn't want to get but kicking lies, he was talking to someone else and you didn't know, so he hides this friend, uh, I don't think so, he was planning to move forward except you found out. Counceling would be recommended if you plan to keep a relationship with this guy to make sure he is serious. I had a friend and she was an emt, the hours and staying at the emt house, please half the emt's sleep with each other while on the clock.

Answer 3

O.K, first he says that he didin't cheat, then after you tell him that you did he says he has been talking to this woman but nothing has happened? Come on, what man is going to spend time with a woman just talking? And even though its silly, why would someone call you out of the blue and tell you about it. I mean look at it like this, he denied it then confirmed part of it but how did this mystery phone person know anything if there was no truth to it. He's lying...don't be fooled.

Answer 4

i think you're dwelling and paranoid. Let's recap what evidence you have, someone called to tell you he was cheating. People normally stay of of things like this, so you gotta question why she even called you, what's in it for her, what evidence did she provide you. Could've been just some person trying to get back at him for a perceived injustice at work? If it was me, I would trust my spouse and give him/her the benefit of the doubt, unless you have other reasons not to trust him based on his overall lbehavior. Is he a liar about other stuff, little things you've caught him on? Men can hangout with women at work, have lunch, and be platonic friends, BUT if they're start hanging out after work on a regular basis, then there's probably something happening or about to happen

Answer 5

a exceptional form of females cheat for the comparable reasons adult men do. some won't opt for to calm down, so they flow from guy or woman to guy or woman. Others won't sense optimistic in themselves, yet whilst they sleep around or maybe if it makes them sense needed or particular because of the fact a exceptional form of human beings supply them interest! the appropriate way you are able to take care of this, is by utilising attending to nicely known somebody quite nicely in the past you initiate up a relationship. bypass out quite a few cases in the past being in a committed relationship. Its needed they know the type you sense approximately cheating and you're able to desire to additionally discover out how they sense approximately besides.

Answer 6

What is your problem??????? You accuse without proof based on what, a phone call??? From who???? u don't know!!!!!! I think ur the one who needs help.
It sounds to me like you have absolutely no self confidence and depend totally on ur hubby to make up who and what u are. How 'bout standing on ur own two feet and look the world straight in the eye and spend less time on the emotional roller coaster. In other words use a little more logic and a lot less emotion..............

Answer 7

I don't know if he cheated. If you love him then you need to trust him. Without trust you have nothing! If this is the person you want to be with... then you have to let go of what ever happened in the past (if anything happened at all) and live in the present time.

Answer 8

You should have gotten more information before confronting him. But it's been a year. You staying with him means that all should be forgiven. Have you thought about counseling?

Answer 9

OK here is the bottom line..........I don't think he had sex, but cheating is emotional, not sex.........and you are dwelling.....in this day and age, a man has sex surrounding him 24/7 (if you live in the US) so just do what you feel is right, DO NOT use your pu**y as a weapon. I love my wife to death, but if she started using her sexuallity to controll my actions.......bye bye baby. A man won't stay with you unless he loves you.....make him fall in love again if you think you're loosing him, and GOOD LUCK

Answer 10

I think he was cheating because more than one person saw them together and chances are they did not set it up to say they saw them together. Im not sure because I was not there so I have no say in it but that is my oponion.
Hope it helps you.
Good luck