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Why should you be like this Do you really believe so? Then with what hope you asked this and shooted this question to the entire universe? You are rightly hopeful of some help. It is not pessimism. If nobody else, I am advising you! But you are already answered earlier than me. Look at the bright side of the world. You will definitely and turn to love the life. All the best and be cheerful. "Do not worry, Be Happy" my friend

2006-10-18 20:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by Chanti 1 · 0 0

A Pessimist. Sort of a sad situation to fall into, I'm sorry that you look at life in such a way. Simply put, you have decided already, before anything you under take, it will ultimately fail. Therefore, why don't you decide to make a "Supreme" effort at something you do well. For instance, let's say you can carry a tune (In other words, you can sing). This is usually easier because it is something you come by a little "Naturally", not necessarily "Concert Quality" but at least in fairly good tune. Tell yourself that you are going to learn a certain song and do it well.
Here is where the "Pessimism" becomes something differant, something better. After you have learned the song and you sound good, realize you have done something good, go ahead, pat yourself on the back alittle and then move to something a little more difficult. You will quickly see that you can succeed.
Most "Pessimistic" people don't realize their own, God given, talents and they end up failing at everything. As long as you are a human, you will have to work to "Make" things happen!! There are no "Free Rides" in life. You must choose "How" you want to experience Life. If you decide to be sad, dispondent, left out, a failure, all your life, then you will be exactly that!! Personally speaking, I want to enjoy my Life, because I only get one chance at it.

2006-10-18 16:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by dontwobears@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0 0

If you make anything, it destroys??? Or you yourself destroy your own creations? In that case, why??? Because you are a pessimist? Or a perfectionist? Maybe you want to improve on your own work.
Anyway, changing you to an optimist isn't possible with any drug. You have to make an effort to think positively. To see the brighter side of things. Read works of fiction or sayings of great personalities that teach you to think and live positively. Learn to appreciate beauty. You will be able to preserve your creations. Meditate a lot. And mix with real good people. Your parents, siblings, friends and relations must also encourage you to think like that. You can change yourself with your own effort. Have that conviction in yourself. Else see a psychologist.

2006-10-18 20:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0 0

I think you already know the answer. You think yourself as pessimist. That means you know what is wrong with you. Think positive and come out of your pessimism. Build up your confidence and you will see the difference. Good luck.

2006-10-18 20:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by Samir Mehta 2 · 0 0

Become the first scientist who invents the medicine to Chikungunya. All the best.

2006-10-21 03:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by ECQC 3 · 0 0

when we loose confidence and faith in ourself this thought comes. dont' worry.even if you destroy something . dont leave. keep trying.and never think about results.do your best and live the rest. always start your conversation with a positive mind though your mind does not accept it (i.e)i can,i will ,i must etc.gradually it will change your negative thoughts to a positive one.
thanks .

2006-10-18 17:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by jayanta d 1 · 0 0

Learn to be positive. And change your pessimistic attitude. Things will then change naturally.

2006-10-18 16:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by MintyMint 2 · 0 0

do some constructive work. don't destroy whatever u do. have positive attitude.become an optimes, cahnge your attiude .

2006-10-18 16:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

see every thing lies in the way we c it.U think that wat ever happens is for ur betterment.If u got less marks in exams then think god has did it for ur welfare only. then surely u will become optimist.good luck

2006-10-18 16:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by ChanIndian 4 · 0 0

Be patient.

2006-10-18 16:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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