If its not the whole truth, its still not the truth right? My friend has this problem with lieing to me when she hangs out with other friends. Its like she thinks ill get mad or something if she hang out with other people. Shes not my husband, she can hang out with other people. I just want her to be straight forward with me. She says that she doesnt have to tell me everything, and she doesnt, I just want enough for our friendship to work. How do I get her to get his, she doesnt reallly seem to get it when I talk to her abou it.
2006-10-18 16:02:02 · 2 answers · asked by furyfluf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to make a more logical argument instead of just telling her your feelings about it, since it sounds like she is not responding to that. Tell her straight up, "I don't care who you hang out with and you don't have to tell me, but when you withhold things from me and I find them out later, it makes me think that you are dishonest and untrustworthy... it's just the impression you give off and it makes me uncomfortable and insecure in our friendship... I'd really like it if we could work on this or come to some compromise so we can just deal with this in some easy way... because your friendship really matters to me".
2006-10-19 05:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maaybe its they way you ask that makes her feel she has to frib to you,because it sounds like she,s afraid of you getting Jeaalous,So maybe you need to look at how you act when you ask her about"HER PERSONAL LIFE" and just because she,s your friend,you have no right nowing what she,s doing when she,s not you!Let me ask you something,If your not jealous,than why do you want to know who she,s with when she,s not with you?Its none of your business,Wether your even Best friends!Hollywood
2006-10-18 23:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋