We have been friends for two years. He often tellls me that he loves me, but then tells another girl that he loves her.
2006-10-18 15:50:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this is a typical situation. friends with benefits. do you enjoy his frienship. or for certain would you really like something more. youall already show some sort of feelings for each other but thats just how its going to stay. you say you have been friends for 2 years, and if this relationship has been like this for these two years, im serious he only wants the relationship to stay the way it is. he loves you but not as a girlfriend but just as a girl he can makeout with and have no commitment.
2006-10-18 16:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by adanbyl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the meaning of 'a friend with benefits'? Do you get benefits by your association with him? If yes, maintain status quo. Don't get involved more deeply. From what you say, he is a first rate womaniser. So don't love him. Just suck him dry.
2006-10-19 03:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friends w/ benifits should be someone you dont have strong emotional feelings for. If you want to actually date him, then talk to him bout it, if he dosent want to date tell him your are just friends, not w/ benifits, but JUST FRIENDS. If you like him more then a friend your gonna get hurt, friends w/ benifits are great, but if you like them more than a friend its a guarantee you will get hurt, i heard it from friends, and i experienced it! Good Luck, try not to get hurt
2006-10-18 23:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant love two girls, so hes abviously lying to keep you under his thumb so yall two can still remain friends with benefits..once a friend with benefits for that damn long, a relationship wont work, you know too much on a personal level.
2006-10-18 23:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him that you want more? or was this one of those ... "there will never be more than this" talks going into this.
I have been in your place and to tell the truth i ended the relationship telling the guy.... if you want more than the benefits then we will talk.
hope it helps
2006-10-19 03:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy r not at all trust worthy.leave him apart and mind ur own business.As much as u run behind him he will not care about u.And stop running he then runs towards u.remember a friend in eed is a friend in deed.Forget him and concentrate upon ur life and family.
2006-10-18 22:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany Taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better ask your self, How much do you love him? and proceed without delay, before it gets to late.
He might be telling other girls to excite/ignite you, you should feel jealous and do fast. Confirm through his behaviour, OK
2006-10-18 23:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!thanks 4 ur answer(just got it)in cant figth 4 what i want anymore..but if u fill that hi is what u want go for it with out looking back!if u r smart enough will get what u want!for ur self ONLY!!
2006-10-19 19:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by kiss a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by friend with benefit? Anyway he seems to be a flirt to me.
2006-10-18 23:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by MintyMint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to let it pass by. Go for it
2006-10-18 22:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋