I can't find a girl that im interested in at highschool.?

Question

Well im 17 and in highschool, and im attracted to a lot of girls in my school but i cant talk to any of them really because i cant think of anything to talk about that im actually interested in, i feel like whenever i talk to girls at my school, im just acting im not really talking to them about stuff that im interested in. but that isnt the problem, its just that i cant find a girl that im emotionally compatible with. have any of you guys felt this way when you were in highschool? did you meet people you were interested in eventually? and same can go for girls too if you want to answer, have you ever had trouble meeting guys that arnt interesting at all?

Answer 1

Especially in suburban high schools (where there may be a total of about 800 kids in the whole school and where each class has only about 200/250 kids) its really common that people don't meet someone. Many kids meet someone either where they work or else through kids from other towns.

You haven't been old enough to be thinking about girl friends for very long, so to not have met somebody and be only 17 isn't the least bit unusual. There's a good chance when you meet someone it won't be someone at your school.

I think, too, sometimes in school there are groups all established and there is no crossing the lines between groups even if you did see someone you like. If you work where there are a lot of people your age there aren't those same groups set up at a workplace, and you get to know people in a more normal way (you get to know their personality, have natural conversations, work together, etc.).

Good luck. Hang in there. You'll meet someone.

Answer 2

Doesn't matter....it's not time to settle down anyway, but it doesn't hurt to go on dates either. It took me awhile, and I have been through several men (don't take that the wrong way), and I found that the ones you think may be all wrong for you, can turn out to be just what the Dr. ordered. I am 28, been married once (at 21 for 5 years) I am just now figuring out what kind of person I am and who I would like to stay with. Our tastes and dislikes change as we get older. Take your time...she'll come along. But in the meanwhile, don't check them all off without at least testing the waters. My present guy (9 mnths) threw me for a loop when he turned out to be something totally different. LOL

Answer 3

sweetie dont be so hard on urself.. its totally normal for guys and girls ur age to experice this.. its not u its just nature taking its course.. let me tell u something funny.. i have a hard time finding a guy to date that doesnt wnat to be my friend only. when i was young i was a tom boy.. i wasnt interested in guys at all cuz i was tryin to be one.. ha ha not really but i can relate to guys cuz i have more in common with them.. but now its like i can talk to both genders equally cuz i have matured into a woman.. give it time it will happen for u.. dont feel pressured into trying to find someone.. just be urslef and have fun learnin about females and there emotions.. u might understand how to catch one by learning from them..

Answer 4

White woman stuff? What? in basic terms because someones white doesnt advise something? Your moms and dads are indian? How might want to you sense if i suggested something, like "eating curry, doing math, and all that indian stuff". Stfu! She sounds slutty, dont get inquisitive about addition shes "a white woman".

Answer 5

it just means that, this is not yet the right time for you to be involved in a relationship,or fall for someone. just be friendly, be yourself, and you'll enjoy the company of everyone, even with people you're not interested with...

Answer 6

just bang hookers until you meet the right one. that way there is no emotional baggage before you join the military