between a scorpio and a libra...?

Question

i'm currently interested in both a scorpio and a libra male...do any of you guys have valuble information to give me about each sign? which is a better option maybe?

Answer 1

Actually which sign does better for you depends on your own sign too, which you did NOT mention. However, I recommend Scorpio male if you belong to Earth or Water sign and Libra male if you belong to Fire or Air sign. :-)
Air signs: Gemini Libra Aquarius
Fire signs: Aries Leo Saggitarius
Water signs: Cancer Scorpio Pisces
Earth signs: Taurus Virgo Capricorn
The Libra male possesses something of a lazy charm and is attractive...often without being aware of it. He has taste, is instinctively fastidious and likely to choose one of the less ordinary careers, possibly in the Arts. Although this male can be balanced on the surface, he is inwardly swayed by indecision for a great proportion of his life. This is a man who will avoid showdowns, if at all possible, about most things and dislikes serious quarrels. That having been said, he may cultivate a non-serious argument regarding emotional matters just to relieve which he perceives as tension. This is a gentle and courteous soul, but one who does have a roving eye. Reluctant to get down to main issues, he is apt to drift, adopting the course that life's currents determine for him rather than paddle his own canoe. Always highly intelligent, the Libra male is a student of human nature, fond of a joke and able to laugh uproariously at the jokes of others. Above all, this is a man who likes fun. Secretly only to aware of life's tragedies and the human predicament, he is not one to take up lost causes or climb upon a personal soap-box and air his views. Thus, this man could never be considered a bore. There is a tendency here for the male governed by this Sign to give a bad impression of himself, but once others get to know him, he is capable of being a very rare animal indeed...a truly good friend.This man will be extremely shrewd in business matters and very capable of managing large enterprises. Persistent in his efforts, he can be counted upon to finish his work in a careful and conscientious way. Blessed with more than ordinary foresight, the Libra male is quick of speech and normally decisive in actions. A first impression here is likely to be correct and his impulses, while apparently hasty, are usually quite sound. In the management of personal affairs at least, this man should determine his own course of action when alone and free from extaneous input. The Libra man literally "feels" truth or falsity, affection or aversion, and is more likely to be influenced by the unexpressed thought rather than speech. It would be foolish for others to try to advise, persuade or control the man ruled by this Sign. Courtesy of his fine intuition, he knows better than anyone when and how to accomplish things and though his actions may be perceived as strange, they are natural to his own specific character.Ambitious and daring, the Libra male can be quite energetic when he chooses. This is a self-reliant man, inclined to want his own way in most matters. He is also something of a "lady's man," which any partner will have to learn to live with in order to make a success of any relationship. Although thought of as high strung, it is not the nerves of this male which make him so, but rather his heightened sense of awareness, coupled with his drive for justice and freedom. This man will be very observant...particularly in terms of a partner gaining weight. He may not expect the pounds to be shed overnight, but he will certainly want any mate to carefully watch the diet under such circumstances. While not by nature egotistical, the Libra male does relish flattery and will want someone in his corner who will appreciate him. Beneath his somewhat dark veneer lurks more of a sense of humor than most imagine and though he may sometimes act rather naive, nothing could be further from the truth.The one great fault associated with this man is probably his tendency to borrow money from friends and family without having any idea whatsoever how he will repay the debt...and this is a strange trait given the customary Libra sense of justice. As lover of animals, this is a soul who is outraged and disturbed by news of abuse in that quarter. Generally, this man has a low tolerance for those who show their emotions, which is considered to be a gross weakness of character, but he does enjoy the arts, literature and music, being more than willing to spend large amounts of money in these areas. Any breach of what he perceives to be good taste will be offensive to this male since, first and last, he regards himself as a social being.In short, Libra men are not easy to understand at times and can vacillate terribly over small decisions...such as where to go to dinner and when, for example. While basically a "good catch" for a prospective partner, this is not the man for anyone who possess a jealous streak and he will certainly give any relationship a run for its money before all is said and done.
The Scorpion is determined, shrewd, protective, jealous, and powerful. It is a sign prone to obsession, and the Scorpio man is not nonchalant about anything, from his career to his love life. Symbolized by the phoenix rising from the ashes, this bird aptly suggests Scorpio's incredible ability to regenerate from seemingly disastrous situations. Much has been written about how sexy and mysterious Scorpio is. To him sex is very important, and it would be impossible for him to have a happy relationship without great sex. The Scorpio male is macho, a modern day 007: thrilling, strong, silent and handsome. One of the challenges of being in love with a Scorpio male is to get him to voice his innermost thoughts and feelings. Sometimes it is impossible know exactly what a Scorpio is thinking! He can be a temperamental, jealous lover, so watch your step. You will have to play by his rules or leave him. With this man, there are no shades of gray. Still waters run deep, and you will find him fiercely loyal and deeply passionate. This Pluto ruled-lover would never dream of divulging details of your private life together to others, and expects the same from you. Woe to the woman who strays from his bed to another lover, for he will never forgive her. The Scorpion's sting is never used casually, only when he feels threatened to the core, for its sting kills not only the victim but the Scorpion itself. Scorpio will never suffer betrayal. If you want to get your Scorpio lover a bit more relaxed and focused on you, try taking him to a small, cozy restaurant that serves solid manly food like a juicy steak and fries. Red wine will probably be his choice over champagne. The Scorpio male is no delicate gourmand. He would love a dark, rich chocolate mouse for dessert, if he likes sweets (some Scorpios do, some don't). Wear your little black dress or something in burgundy, his favorite color.

Your Scorpio will want you to be uninhibited. Don't become offended if he suggests viewing a sex video together. He does not see pornography as degrading to women, but as research and stimulus for new things to do. Since this sign rules law enforcement, crime and punishment, suggest he play policeman with you. Give him a gift box containing a blindfold and some handcuffs and you'll be all set. This man likes trying out a little light S&M playacting too so if you trust him, be cooperative if wants to put his naughty girl over his knee for a little spanking. This intense sign will insist on being the one in control, but surrendering to a Scorpio can be divine rapture.
'If only I had a little humility, I would be perfect.' Ted Turner (Born November 19)

Whether he is tall, dark, and handsome or short, blond, and chubby, a Scorpio man is idealistic, passionate, and loyal. He will mesmerise you with his candid, purposeful stare and capture your heart with his magnetic charm. He may be as cuddly as Sinbad, or as sexy as Leonardo DiCaprio; wear a white collar, a blue collar, or no collar at all; but here is the man who is impossible to resist. Think you've hit the jackpot? Think again, sweetheart.

Loving a male Scorpion is like falling for King Kong. Oh, he's sexy and, underneath that aloof exterior, surprisingly sensitive. Of course, that titbit of knowledge may not help when you are handed divorce papers because you said his best friend was a low-life slob. Other guys might sit down to discuss their feelings. Mr Intense will sit down and rip yours to shreds.

He is selfish. Never mind that you are married to him or in a serious relationship. The Scorpion's idea of commitment is showing up for dinner most of the time. His emotion switch is set at sub-zero, and he won't hesitate to be unfaithful until he's dead. However, contrary to popular belief, he is not sex-crazed. That trait belongs to cousin Aries. Scorpio is terrified of deep emotional dependence on just one person, so, in his usual ***-backward way, he screws around precisely to avoid intimacy.

A male Scorpion has two reasons for living. The first is power. The second is control. He would control fate if he could - and some try. He will usually be a good provider because his desire for power and control drives him to become successful in his chosen profession. But money is rarely his primary motivation. Financial gain is only a by-product of becoming Mr Big. His moods change faster than a Pisces flipping the remote, and he will test your love by demanding the devotion of a religious fanatic at a revival meeting. He's so jealous, possessive, and sarcastic that you will be tempted to poison his oatmeal. There's no handling a Scorpion. You either put up with him or run like hell.

Deliberately awaken this man's green-eyed monster, and you better have a shovel handy. You are going to need it to either defend yourself or dig your own grave. Remember this before you are foolish enough to plunge into an affair, or worse, a legally-binding relationship.

The worst thing you can do to a Scorpio man is to not react to his emotional intimidation tactics. If he demands to be alone, applaud. Curb his sarcasm with a yawn. If he says he wants an open marriage, tell him you thought you already had one. When he announces he's going out without you, tell him to have a good time, then smile as if you know something he doesn't. He'll pretend to leave, park around the block, and sneak back to lurk in the bushes, convinced that you are cheating on him. He's as obtuse as Taurus when he thinks he's right and will stand in a rainstorm all night, muttering to himself, while you are cosy by the fireplace.

He communicates by threat. The foremost one is that he's leaving you. He also lies. The only thing harder to rid yourself of than a Scorpio man is a Cancer woman. A male Scorpion frequently looks like he just ate a cactus. That's because he spends half his life getting even for some real, or imagined, slight and the other half causing all his own troubles.

Yours will be so secretive that he would rather have his fingernails pulled out than tell you what he had for lunch. He's morbidly afraid that if he dares to share any serious facts, or fears, you may get the upper hand. That's why he's so good at small talk. He can blather for hours about every piece of minutiae in the world, but ask him a direct question, and he will clam up and rush outside to mow the lawn.

Your home will be either near water or hidden in a cul-de-sac behind a tall fence. He would live in a place that's accessible only by helicopter, except that it would screw up his Thursday-night dates with the cocktail waitress at the local bar. If you do catch him between the wrong pair of sheets, he will put on such a display of grovelling, whining, and begging, that you might think he has suffered a breakdown. Don't be fooled. He thrives on intensity and is as much masochist as manipulator. He will do anything it takes at that moment to gain your forgiveness, except change. Scorpio is fixed water. He exists in a bottomless well of churning emotional excess and is so embroiled in trying to figure out his own emotions that he will never understand yours. Being sucked into the vortex of his charm is akin to getting lost in the Bermuda Triangle. You may or may not survive the trip.
By the way I am born on 23rd of December at 2315 hours in Stockholm Sweden and my North Node is 2nd house of Scorpio, Pluto sign is 3rd house of Scorpio and Venus sign is 3rd house of Scorpio again.
Best Wishes and Good Luck!:-)

Answer 2

This unusual combination of Water and Air may spawn either the best or the worst. The Libran's intellectual grace thrives on the Scorpio's emotional profundity, and vice-versa. Libran eloquence may also draw Scorpio out of his silence, and facilitate the Scorpio's efforts to make new contacts, although the latter will still need periods of solitude in which to resume his old patterns. The Libran preoccupation with commitment is compatible with the Scorpio's possessiveness. Their journey through life together may be long and passionate. This is a union of light and dark.

Answer 3

According to the books, Libra is a romantic who likes being in romantic relationships. Libras are social, and fun. They have tendencies to be lazy and indecisive. ( Being very balanced is a false characteristic given to Libras) Scorpios are intuitive, secretive,mysterious, and manipulative. Scorpios are also the most sexual sign of the zodiac. I'd say Libras are a better pick, but I recommend you don't chose one over the other based on their zodiac sign. Regardless of what sign they are, everyone still has their own personality.

Answer 4

Hi, first of all what is important is what is ur sign? now that is out of the way. scorpio, will be very vindictive and revengeful if u rub him/her the wrong way. libra will be easy to talk to in the beginning, but later much difficult to pin down. it will exhausting with both, but libra is more beautiful to look at . take ur chances and all the best it will be a roller coaster ride with either.

Answer 5

Scorpio are strong and solid. They're are very passionate and have very deep feelings. They also loyal and a dedicated friend.Scorpio are fiercely competitive, subject to fits of vindictive jealousy and can be quite manipulative in pursuit of your goals.

Scorpio Rule !!

Answer 6

I agree w/jd28spot. I am a Scorpio. Good lovers. Faithful friends but don't mess with us.

Answer 7

You didn't mention ur sign so it's hard to say which is more compatible with you? Personally speaking (as a lifelong Scorpio), if it's hot, passion ur looking for.....go with the Scorpio. However, as the saying goes......beware of the sting of the Scorpion! Do him harm and he will sting you back......hard!!!!

Answer 8

have you thought about looking up info on scorpio and libra or looking for books

Answer 9

Libras tend to be lazy

Answer 10

ha ha ha
im a female scorpio..and i get along with alota libra's
and i can tell you..
i cant help you make this decision..
its all on wat you want..really it is...
who makes u laugh alot..
who do u trust alot..
who do u like alot..
me..i guess we're awesome...(scorpio)..
we can be trusted..we are romantic..(when we love you)
we will protect the person we love..i mean seriously..
i will take a bullet for my (real) friends..
and if we dnt like you..u'll notice...we can be confided in..
make sure u kno ..nvm..ok..
so thats all i can basically tell you..
but there are diff. types of scorps..so try to find out which one they are..

ttyL
your fellow scorp

Answer 11

I'm a scorpio! Silly is something I can say.