medical documentation of your STD test outcomes, would you let her see it? Would you be offended? What if she was ready to give you documentation on her STD status? Would it be okay then?
2006-10-18 15:28:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I do so appreciate only the men's answers. As the question clearly reads, MEN and men only. Ten points will ONLY go to a man. WOMEN will not get 10 pts on this one.
2006-10-18 15:38:00 · update #1
Wow, what an interesting question. I guess in this day and age it wouldn't be that big of a deal. I would counter by saying "I've never been tested . . . " (which is true). Would you be willing to have sex if that was the answer? I guess you'd want him to get checked first. I'd probably be okay with it, if I loved and trusted you. It would be out of respect for you so I'd be fine with it.
2006-10-18 15:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is such a thing as having some sort of documentation for STDs someone gets in their lifetime, and, if a woman asks to see it, I think it very much depends on how much he loves her.
Also depends on how the question is asked: If she says "Show me all the documentation for your STDs or else", then they guy will choose or else. Since this is a sensitive matter, the way the question is asked is very important.
If the man has no documentation for any STDs, then the most prudent way to get it is by leading by example. The woman should take her man to a doctor and both should get checked at the same time.
Also, if it gets down to it, many states require a bloodtest before getting a marriage license. This may help ease the question a bit.
2006-10-19 02:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by kettlechipsdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem confirming my results. Well, the two of us could go together to a health clinic and get tested at the same time. While the tests are not total evidence of being free from a STD (depending on the window period when the test would be able to detect the infection), I would assume that the two of us would be using protection as well. One should never use STD testing as a "method" of protection.
2006-10-18 15:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would most deffinatly comply...
However, I would rather we both (the woman and myself) go in together for a fresh series of tests; that way we'll know that at that time, at that moment, we both know where we stand...
But that will never happen! Why?
Because I did the series of tests with my wife a few years back and promised "never again!". It was very very painful and the pain in my uethrea (?) remained for almost a week afterwards... So I vowed Never Again, and therefore I plan to remain faithful to my wife until the day she or I die, and after that, I swear I imagine I think I will not want another sexual partner!
Cheers!
2006-10-19 03:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha.......u should ask!
I had a real life situation in which a woamn did exactly that just before she grab my dick..........gave me a fantastic BJ and guide it into her puzz!
I have absolutely no hang-ups.......inhibitions.....or whatever have you ....in being 100% honest & open......
......in fact....I truly & honestly appreciate a woman asking..............
as this is the clearest signal that she's wise......... careful......... n more likely to be disease free herself.
I happen to be 100% clean & disease free.........n never have seen a doctor for the last 30 years!
(Sorry.....to those who disbelieve.....I am a fanetic fitness freak!)
I could imagine in many cases......many men may feel some offense............be coz they may feel the woman does not trust him.........but then, why should a woman trust you base on your onwself saying so?!
If the woman were to offer to show her own test results first......... I would take my hat (......& my pants!) off to her..........she's my kind of gal.......... open, frank & honest!
O.K. you now know my answer.........n I'll follow up...........give her the best warm up..............touch her all over............give her the best oral...............n I'll sink into her every millimeter of my hot rod & ride with her till the howling wind blows us both to the land of oblivion!
2006-10-18 17:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by sandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Today it is a good idea to be real careful. But the medical records are only good up to a point. The person could have caught something since, or had something that was not sufficiently developed in his system to be detectable.
2006-10-18 15:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not bother me but in this day and age, medical records can be forged like anything else. I would think it far better to ask the one you are with to wear a condom to minimise the risk of STD and an unwanted pregnancy.
2006-10-18 16:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by stargazer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think it is a bad thing to ask to see the results, but usually we don't carry our blood test results with us. When you're about to have sex with someone, its usually a moment thing and I doubt anyone will be able to show you tests right there and then. Sex is usually not planned in advance. But if that's what you're doing, then I would not be offended if I was asked that.
2006-10-18 15:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Michael 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is a sensible woman. Why ruin your life by taking a wild fling. It should be standard practice to exchange test results. Remember that it remains valid only if both partners remain monogamous.
2006-10-18 23:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by JOHN M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think the guy should be offended but i do think that the STD conversation should happen before your in the moment.. timing is everything especiall with matters as serious as this..
2006-10-18 15:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by c_a_carrasco_s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋