i need help dealing with my husband's infidelity especially at this terrible time in our lives when i am undergoing cancer treatment. i need an online support group to chat with......help. i want to keep my sanity intact
2006-10-18 15:07:42 · 9 answers · asked by karma2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First, your health is number one. There are many support groups that will assist you through this first priority in your life. Your physician will refer you to a competent group.
Repairing trust in a loving relationship is a very difficult action to resolve. It is not impossible however, just very difficult. You are in my prayers...Marriage is worth the sacrifice even through sickness and health, good times and bad.
You are hurting which is sane given the challenges that lie before you. Turn all things over to God.
God Bless.
2006-10-18 15:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lives7 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that whether or not you have cancer your husband would of cheated.
Call your local hospital and ask about support groups.
If your husband is sorry about the cheating....then the two of you can move ahead. But, if he continues cheating and doesn't make an effort to keep the marriage in tack, it might be good for you to move out and live in a happier place, Because with cancer you need your spirits to be up to fighthing your cancer.
If it is too stressful to leave him, then stick it out.
Can you get counseling? Also, if you do leave him, get a good .attorney....a judge will not look kindly on a man who cheats on a sick wife.
2006-10-18 15:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is awful!! What happened to the vows of in sickness and in health? I am sorry to hear that you have to go through this as well as your cheating husband. Google some support groups, talk to a priest, talk to family/friends. You can also talk to me on here. My mom has cancer so I know what your going through
2017-01-02 21:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by cutiepie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need more than a support group for cancer, you need a support group for divorcees. That would be my suggestion--I had a sister whose husband did the same thing when he discovered she had cancer. Your husband should be your ex--he doesn't deserve you and the woman (or man) he's cheating with will eventually see through him. I hope you do too.
2006-10-18 15:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did u have a good marriage before you were diagnosed? His immaturity and lack of coping skills has obviously left him reeling and unfortunately he has made a terrible error. Your health is your priority and frankly he isn't worth your time or energy at this point. Soak up positive, encouraging energy from your friends and family and let them rally around you. Yahoo Groups might also have a community you could find support from. PRAY, meditate and KNOW that you did nothing to deserve what he's done - especially at such a delicate time.
Time will heal all - and it will get better. With or without him.
2006-10-18 15:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my god, I'm so sorry. I know how awful it is going thru cancer treatment. My mom had breast cancer a couple years ago. I don't know of any support groups but you can email me anytime if you want, you know, to vent or whatever. I'm here to listen and hopefully help. VanessaKisses29@yahoo.
2006-10-18 15:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am so so so sorry to hear that, my mom just passed away with cancer last Nov. Let me tell you, it was hard, but on top of that my Dad was cheating on her--- while she was on her death bed.
And I had to be the one to catch him, now he is married to her and they are expecting a baby, and i hate her so much, I don't know about any support groups, because I just handled it by myself, But if I was you I would get a divorce, before anything bad might happen to you, because now my dad is living it up with my mom's insurance money and his new wife. it piss' me off, so I moved away, be smart, before anything happens, (for the worst)
2006-10-18 15:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by missouri girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what type of cancer do you have? many of my family members have been through cancer I have seen the stress that it puts people and their family's through and right now you need to take care of you. kemo takes and drains you and you shouldnt have to worry about your husbands infidelity let him go on his way you have enough to worry about you dont need that. you need to stay strong I will be here for you if you'd like and i have been through 2 so called husbands and their infidelity issues
please if you need to talk email me denaybail@yahoo.com tell me about yourself... good luck i will pray for you
ps.. they only get caught when they want to be caught are men really that stupid
2006-10-18 16:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by denaybail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have proof he cheated, divorce his *** and take him to the cleaners...what a heartless bastard...
2006-10-18 15:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋