Am I wrong for not wanting to invite my Mother to my wedding because she is a stinking drunk. The last time we at a party was a Family reunion and she got so drunk sge started to take her clothes off and would have been completly naked if we didn't stop her. At a Block party a few years ago she got drunk on Malt Liquor and we found her in the Garage peforming Oral sex on our Neighbor. She has been like this since I was a kid and my father Died in Vietnam. It's a big day and I don't want her to ruin it by taking her clothes off or trying to blow the minister. What should I do?
2006-10-18 14:55:42 · 13 answers · asked by mrharderson 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, do not invite your mother to your wedding. I think that she might take it as a wake up call. It is going to be a very special night and she has no right to ruin it. UNLESS she can be chaperoned and babysat all nigth and taken away from the party once she has even an indication she might be out of control. Your soon to be wife may breath a sigh of releif if you mention your mom is not coming.
2006-10-18 15:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ewww, sick! I'm sorry your mother is such a loser. She might get along with my mother as she is a drunk as well-my mom will drink anything and does dumb stuff when she is lit, which is like after one beer, but she will still proceed to drink an 18 pack---anyway, i hate my mother and i really do not want her at my wedding, but my grandma, (mom's mother) said i should not curse my own wedding day and start my marriage off badly by not having my own mom there----i hate my mother and the idea of having her at the wedding, but if i must invite her, i will make sure she has no access to alcohol and if she gets out of control with her bipolar attitude, her *** will be escorted out the door!
2006-10-18 16:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one, but you should invite her to your wedding like you said it is afterall your big day and whether you liek it or not she is your one and only mother. But a suggestion, have someone watch over her at the wedding and talk to her about this before hand, tell her that the rules are if she wants to attend the wedding it's VIRGIN drinks only. Have someone watch over her at all time to keep her away fro mthe liquor. It'd be easier if the person watchin over her wasa girl, incase she says she needs to use the bathroom but instead sneaks in there to drink alcohol, the girl will be able to go into the bathroom and wait for her to come out. Congrats on the good news btw!
2006-10-18 15:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by Liliac 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, thats a tough one. If you don't invite her she is never going to forgive you. That would hurt any mother really bad. Is it possible for you to talk to her and tell her how you feel? Tell her that you want her there but your afraid she will ruin your special day. Tell her she can come but she has to promise not to drink before, during or after the wedding. That is if your able to talk to her about things. If this is not possible, I wouldn't risk her ruining your wedding. It's an important day for you.
2006-10-18 20:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think its wrong not to invite your mom at your most important day of you life party. Gawd! I'd be humiliated if I had a mom who was like that.
However, since she has no legs, then Ipresume she'd be in a wheelchair, right?
So, you can tie her up real good, Mr. Kick-the -Penguin-in -the-stomach. I'm sure Gimpy aka your mom would love being strapped down. You are one of those people who make up crack pot type of questions to see what people answer!
2006-10-18 15:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well fist of all talkto your mother. have you came to think that since your father died she has felt lonly and depresed. even if she has freinds and you and always has a smile on doesn't mean she is happy. she is your mother and she should go to your wedding just talk to her and tell her to not drink because its your special day.or don't have alchoholic beverages a your wedding?Anyways Congradulations wish you the best and hope you don't go the same as your mother did?
2006-10-18 15:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have an otherwise good relationship with your mother, invite her and dont' serve alcohol at your wedding. You could also hire a bouncer if you are worried about having any problems.
2006-10-18 15:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to ruin the fun for your momma? So she gets a little wild when she drinks, I think it is very selfish of you to not want to invite her. I say join the fun. Maybe put a dancing pole in the middle of the dance floor so momma can put on a real show for everyone.
2006-10-18 15:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If this is a true story, don't invite her. Just explain to her that because she chooses to get so drunk, you cannot invite her to your wedding.
2006-10-18 14:58:30 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
judging by the name you use for yourself, i doubt that you're serious. your mother is probably a nice woman and you are probably a teenage prick
2006-10-18 15:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋